I would suggest a safe word instead. If she isn't game she can use it in the moment and you stop.
Great idea! I'd suggest “no” or “sorry babe, I'm really not feeling it tonight.” This isn't some bondage shit, it's being woken up with some oral by the person you love and, I assume, trust the most. Especially when she has already stated she wants it.
i shouldnt say a break…. i left him bc he was pulling some sus stuff and thats a non issue now but it seems acknowledging my feelings might be an issue however i could very well be in the wrong i just need help understanding both perspectives as i feel clouded rn..
Yeah, I was a stay at home dad when my (now) 5 year old was a baby. I'm not saying you wouldn't wake if the baby does, I'm saying you should be able to go to bed without waking a baby in the same room if they're not in the bed.
Just do what you need to do to get away from the drama. Giving her “closure” when she is oblivious to how her actions are impacting her friendships is unnecessary
It is doubtful she will want an abortion if you don’t get back with her. She will see the baby as another way to control you for the rest of your life. Not wanting you to see your family, then raging in front of them proves she is a terrible wife and will be a terrible mother. Don’t feel guilty leaving this marriage. Get 50/50 custody of the child and be the best father you can be. The kid will need you.
When I read a relationship post I like to read the relationship post and really consider the relationship post. If the relationship is really there, then it’s something I should consider giving advice on, though I’m honestly not interested in considering things. I should just accept that the relationship has progressed.
Or maybe it’s interesting. I’m uncertain. I’ll need to think about it.
If you want someone who shares your values, a Mormon probably isn’t compatible. “Still a member” is a Mormon. Have a serious conversation about values and what you both want (and don’t want.) If you were teens or early 20s, dating would be fine, but at 28, you don’t want to waste time on someone you have no future with.
If he goes to flush it, it will overflow and make a huge nasty mess. The clog is down usually in the bend. Where the hell did he get this idea that poop will break down just sitting in the bowl from? Has he tried to flush after letting it sit? No one wants to smell his or anyone else's shit. It's nasty.
I would suggest a safe word instead. If she isn't game she can use it in the moment and you stop.
Great idea! I'd suggest “no” or “sorry babe, I'm really not feeling it tonight.” This isn't some bondage shit, it's being woken up with some oral by the person you love and, I assume, trust the most. Especially when she has already stated she wants it.
i shouldnt say a break…. i left him bc he was pulling some sus stuff and thats a non issue now but it seems acknowledging my feelings might be an issue however i could very well be in the wrong i just need help understanding both perspectives as i feel clouded rn..
He is participating in allowing this issue to continue. He’s choosing to let her have access to it. There is a reason why.
Yeah, I was a stay at home dad when my (now) 5 year old was a baby. I'm not saying you wouldn't wake if the baby does, I'm saying you should be able to go to bed without waking a baby in the same room if they're not in the bed.
He said she lost him, and goes no contact. It’s obvious he broke up with her
Just do what you need to do to get away from the drama. Giving her “closure” when she is oblivious to how her actions are impacting her friendships is unnecessary
It is doubtful she will want an abortion if you don’t get back with her. She will see the baby as another way to control you for the rest of your life. Not wanting you to see your family, then raging in front of them proves she is a terrible wife and will be a terrible mother. Don’t feel guilty leaving this marriage. Get 50/50 custody of the child and be the best father you can be. The kid will need you.
When I read a relationship post I like to read the relationship post and really consider the relationship post. If the relationship is really there, then it’s something I should consider giving advice on, though I’m honestly not interested in considering things. I should just accept that the relationship has progressed.
Or maybe it’s interesting. I’m uncertain. I’ll need to think about it.
If you want someone who shares your values, a Mormon probably isn’t compatible. “Still a member” is a Mormon. Have a serious conversation about values and what you both want (and don’t want.) If you were teens or early 20s, dating would be fine, but at 28, you don’t want to waste time on someone you have no future with.
This has to be a troll, if it's not.. idk man. It has to be one of the top 10 most revolting things I have read.
If he goes to flush it, it will overflow and make a huge nasty mess. The clog is down usually in the bend. Where the hell did he get this idea that poop will break down just sitting in the bowl from? Has he tried to flush after letting it sit? No one wants to smell his or anyone else's shit. It's nasty.
That’s assault. I’m so sorry.
Cheating knows no gender. If anything happened or not, this is not what someone in a committed relationship should be doing.