Unfortunately you are like a vast majority of the posters in this sub. You refuse to acknowledge red flags and determined to make broken work.
You can keep fighting it for as long as you want. The result well still be the same. Leave now or leave later. The difference ru will impact will be your ability and speed to recover.
the audacity. i’m sorry your husband is such a coward i hope he can recover soon.
for me this would probably ruin the relationship, ivf is expensive, can be emotionally and physically difficult. not to mention how difficult pregnancy is emotionally and physically. he’s incredibly selfish and emotionally stunted.
i’m pro choice but this is not what abortion is for imo, this is a deliberate pregnancy to bring a child into the world, so pulling the plug like that seems super disconnected from reality…
Youre accepting some awful behavior and waving it off like its nothing. Maybe the thought of leaving is overwhelming because of the depression but You dont need to tolerate someone who treats you like shit. Just because he does nice things sometimes does not erase the fact that he thinks youre dumb. And tells you youre dumb. That by itself should be a deal breaker.
And i notice this in my anxious friend: shes always anxious, so when she SHOULD be anxious, it doesnt register. Anxiety (the emotion, not the illness) is necessary. For example, her baby could be falling off a ledge and its all the same to her. Im assuming that when everything causes anxiety, you cant tell when something SHOULD make you anxious.
Anyways, your boyfriends actions SHOULD make you anxious. Alarm bells SHOULD be firing. Red flags SHOULD be waving. Dont dismiss your gut.
Unfortunately you are like a vast majority of the posters in this sub. You refuse to acknowledge red flags and determined to make broken work.
You can keep fighting it for as long as you want. The result well still be the same. Leave now or leave later. The difference ru will impact will be your ability and speed to recover.
“Well if I’m not both, perhaps I shouldn’t be either.”
the audacity. i’m sorry your husband is such a coward i hope he can recover soon.
for me this would probably ruin the relationship, ivf is expensive, can be emotionally and physically difficult. not to mention how difficult pregnancy is emotionally and physically. he’s incredibly selfish and emotionally stunted.
i’m pro choice but this is not what abortion is for imo, this is a deliberate pregnancy to bring a child into the world, so pulling the plug like that seems super disconnected from reality…
Is he a realist or is he a fucking asshole?
Youre accepting some awful behavior and waving it off like its nothing. Maybe the thought of leaving is overwhelming because of the depression but You dont need to tolerate someone who treats you like shit. Just because he does nice things sometimes does not erase the fact that he thinks youre dumb. And tells you youre dumb. That by itself should be a deal breaker.
And i notice this in my anxious friend: shes always anxious, so when she SHOULD be anxious, it doesnt register. Anxiety (the emotion, not the illness) is necessary. For example, her baby could be falling off a ledge and its all the same to her. Im assuming that when everything causes anxiety, you cant tell when something SHOULD make you anxious.
Anyways, your boyfriends actions SHOULD make you anxious. Alarm bells SHOULD be firing. Red flags SHOULD be waving. Dont dismiss your gut.
You never visited his place for months?
Not all women feel like that at all. And plenty of us could be caught doing the same. The downvotes are just pearl clutching…and not the fun kind;)