Has your BF responded to her? That should've been the first step. And you should not be excluded from an event at your own home. Your BF needs to respond to her, and if you're not comfortable with her being around she should get uninvited to game night.
I think you should sit down with the builder and have a ball buster of a conversation. “As you know, we have cameras on the property. I heard your extremely inappropriate conversation with my husband. Regardless of whether anything he told you is true or not, we are only 30% through this renovation, and I am no longer comfortable working with you. Do you have any suggestions for how to handle the situation?” You may be able to wrangle some discounts or something out of him by putting him on the defensive, especially if he said anything out of line. You can finish off by letting him know that since your husband wants to be a big shot he will be handling the project going forward, but if things get fucked up because you were no longer in a position to manage the renovation properly, you expect to be fully compensated for the error, as you would not feel comfortable having them complete any repairs. (I'd get that in writing!) This should at least clue the builder into being on their A-game for the rest of the renovation.
I'm not sure how you handle finances as a couple, but fuck ups have consequences. In addition to having the responsibility of managing the project solo, I recommend that your husband pay for a larger percentage of the repairs personally. I can't say to what degree, but at least enough to cut into his personal or play money.
Finally, it's a great lesson in the virtue of professionalism for the builder. There's no reason to be talking to married clients about their sex life unless you're in the therapy business.
You were not sure what to do? You break up with her you do not date somebody that cheats on you. It’s dishonest, and she will drag your emotions through the ringer. And she will never be any better than what she is, which is a cheater. To answer your question you tell her it’s over that cheating is a dealbreaker and you leave.
You can stay with her and let her she doing over you keep making promises blocking you hiding things from you lying to you and feel really crappy about yourself. It’s your choice.
Dude, ?‍♀️?‍♀️ you’re almost 30 and your naivety is insane. Block delete and move on. She ain’t calling, she’s fucking her sugar daddy. Move on. She’s not for you!!!
OP may i say every new thing you say about him is more and more upsetting.
Shit post.
None of OP's answers to commenters questions make any sense and are all disjointed or repetitive.
Has your BF responded to her? That should've been the first step. And you should not be excluded from an event at your own home. Your BF needs to respond to her, and if you're not comfortable with her being around she should get uninvited to game night.
I think you should sit down with the builder and have a ball buster of a conversation. “As you know, we have cameras on the property. I heard your extremely inappropriate conversation with my husband. Regardless of whether anything he told you is true or not, we are only 30% through this renovation, and I am no longer comfortable working with you. Do you have any suggestions for how to handle the situation?” You may be able to wrangle some discounts or something out of him by putting him on the defensive, especially if he said anything out of line. You can finish off by letting him know that since your husband wants to be a big shot he will be handling the project going forward, but if things get fucked up because you were no longer in a position to manage the renovation properly, you expect to be fully compensated for the error, as you would not feel comfortable having them complete any repairs. (I'd get that in writing!) This should at least clue the builder into being on their A-game for the rest of the renovation.
I'm not sure how you handle finances as a couple, but fuck ups have consequences. In addition to having the responsibility of managing the project solo, I recommend that your husband pay for a larger percentage of the repairs personally. I can't say to what degree, but at least enough to cut into his personal or play money.
Finally, it's a great lesson in the virtue of professionalism for the builder. There's no reason to be talking to married clients about their sex life unless you're in the therapy business.
why do you think you know more about women… than actual women?
You were not sure what to do? You break up with her you do not date somebody that cheats on you. It’s dishonest, and she will drag your emotions through the ringer. And she will never be any better than what she is, which is a cheater. To answer your question you tell her it’s over that cheating is a dealbreaker and you leave.
You can stay with her and let her she doing over you keep making promises blocking you hiding things from you lying to you and feel really crappy about yourself. It’s your choice.
Watch legally blonde and tell him “I’M TAKING THE DOG- DUMBASS”
Dude, ?‍♀️?‍♀️ you’re almost 30 and your naivety is insane. Block delete and move on. She ain’t calling, she’s fucking her sugar daddy. Move on. She’s not for you!!!
Don't try to pawn your shitty opinions off on “all men.”
Fortunately there are many men out there who are more progressive thinkers than you, and don't share your opinion.