I wish I could give you a hug. And beat your husband with a big fucking stick. I’m so sorry, but you have to be strong. Cry later. Get mad now, and get him away from you and your kids. What happens when they have teenage friends?
Your focus here is wrong. Everything you’ve said is about how this is affecting you.
It makes you unhappy. It pains you. It’s special for you.
While all these things may be true, they are not the thing you should be focusing on. You should be focusing on how unhappy this is making your partner, the person you love. How much pain you are causing to your partner, the person you love. How devastating this is for your partner, the person you love.
Loving someone means thinking about their feelings, experiences, and welfare. It’s not enough to notice their suffering and empathise. It’s not enough to feel pained by it. You have to actually work to prevent them from suffering at your hand. That is what love is.
Tell her parents! I’m sure they have no idea who he is or she would not be doing this. Let them be the ultimate jury and judge. There will be repercussions if the school knows. It’s unethical. Her parents, I’m speculating, of course, but they won’t be okay with it.
and Z actually said that she wants to be more exclusive with me. so i felt we've developed a mutual trust and became more intimate with her. so it doesn't feel good when i found out she lied soon afterwards and that's why I feel i was cheated
Will do, I appreciate your support.?
You think you deserve anyone's respect? You really are full of yourself
I wish I could give you a hug. And beat your husband with a big fucking stick. I’m so sorry, but you have to be strong. Cry later. Get mad now, and get him away from you and your kids. What happens when they have teenage friends?
Your focus here is wrong. Everything you’ve said is about how this is affecting you.
It makes you unhappy. It pains you. It’s special for you.
While all these things may be true, they are not the thing you should be focusing on. You should be focusing on how unhappy this is making your partner, the person you love. How much pain you are causing to your partner, the person you love. How devastating this is for your partner, the person you love.
Loving someone means thinking about their feelings, experiences, and welfare. It’s not enough to notice their suffering and empathise. It’s not enough to feel pained by it. You have to actually work to prevent them from suffering at your hand. That is what love is.
That's her problem, not yours. You gave her the truth and it's on her if she believes it. The best you can do is let her know the truth.
Tell her parents! I’m sure they have no idea who he is or she would not be doing this. Let them be the ultimate jury and judge. There will be repercussions if the school knows. It’s unethical. Her parents, I’m speculating, of course, but they won’t be okay with it.
I agree.
and Z actually said that she wants to be more exclusive with me. so i felt we've developed a mutual trust and became more intimate with her. so it doesn't feel good when i found out she lied soon afterwards and that's why I feel i was cheated
Brutal honesty, I think the guy likes you more than just FWB but is trying to play it cool.
Are the antidepressants working? Is he going to therapy?
It sounds like you need to see a therapist. This issue isn't about him, but moreso you.
the bar it's so low we are in the 10th circle of hell
70% of the population in the US has herpes.
except official stats say it's as low as 50%.