Cheating, and being a parent are 2 separate things. She didn't tell him she was pregnant to punish him. What she doesn't seem to get is that she hurt her daughter more with her childish game now she has to reap what she sows. If she's not careful her daughter is going to grow to hate her. My advice to you is to take a good, very hot look at this situation, and realize that if you continue this relationship, and have kids with her this will be your life. If you piss her off or you two split up, she will trash talk you behind your back, ulimately hurting your kids, she will try to keep them from you, and the list goes on. Protect yourself, and get out before you bring children into a toxic, damaging life.
This dynamic is something I’d really recommend you speak to a couples therapist about – left unchecked it can quite easily lead to resentment on both of your sides.
I had a similar dynamic in my own relationship but from your wife’s perspective and it stemmed from anxiety, so food for thought.
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He just told her to go ask me instead. But i dont like that she’s still able to message him and does so
Cheating, and being a parent are 2 separate things. She didn't tell him she was pregnant to punish him. What she doesn't seem to get is that she hurt her daughter more with her childish game now she has to reap what she sows. If she's not careful her daughter is going to grow to hate her. My advice to you is to take a good, very hot look at this situation, and realize that if you continue this relationship, and have kids with her this will be your life. If you piss her off or you two split up, she will trash talk you behind your back, ulimately hurting your kids, she will try to keep them from you, and the list goes on. Protect yourself, and get out before you bring children into a toxic, damaging life.
Girls would be not okay with it too lmao
This dynamic is something I’d really recommend you speak to a couples therapist about – left unchecked it can quite easily lead to resentment on both of your sides.
I had a similar dynamic in my own relationship but from your wife’s perspective and it stemmed from anxiety, so food for thought.
9 to 5 is not 55 hours. It's 40 hours.
Her posts don't make sense at all.
I won't list up all the bs in tgat pist, as you are unwilling to listen, as it seems.
I do have back issues. Some days I can't sit.
But she rants that he played video games. With a slipped disc? Huh?
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