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I think the cleaning/cooking expects too a of a guest vary based on length of stay and nature of visit.
Since this is an extended stay over a week to share in the holidays, it is a reasonable expectation that she shares in the holiday activities which includes some cooking/cleaning.
Should she be expected to vacuum and dust? No. But Iāve never been a guest somewhere and not cleared my own dishes from the table and at least rinsed them off.
Sounds like you aren't happy with a lot of things about her. It may be time to move on
I mean, why didn't you just say no? Sorry, I'm not feeling this, I would appreciate it if you left. Saying no is okay.
So. I came from an abusive household. It won't get better until she gets out and gets in therapy. It took me years and I means years to get to a point of self actualization. If you want to start helping her, find ways to reassure her of your love. Small tokens. Get her favorite soda. Snack. Etc. Then take the time each day to talk and check in. Reassure her you are there for her but can't respond or read every text message. She's going to get pissed. She will probably lash out. But if you're in it for the long haul, keep up with small tokens of affection.
There are a few good relationship books which helped me. Ester Perel, John gottman. And David snhnarch are a few good ones. They all write about how to form solid relationships and what some pitfalls are when we are codependent. I wish I would have found these sooner.
I heard that the age of consent in Japan is only 13. That probably explains your anime obsession. You are so gross!
I love how so many people here are like āsheās busted, break up with her!ā without remembering that asexuality and the like exist and are perfectly valid. People also have fluctuations in libido over the course of their lives for an ENORMOUS variety of reasons. She very well could have no idea whatās going on with her.
I myself had an extremely high libido for most of my life once I hit puberty, and then about five months ago it vanished. I do not crave sex at all. That doesnāt mean it doesnāt still feel good, or that I donāt love my partner and think theyāre unbelievably attractive, the switch just doesnāt flip for me anymore. I found out a week ago thatās because Iāve had ulcers in my digestive tract that led to a blood infection and lesions on my arms and chest in the last couple days. I was sick and had no idea because my pain tolerance is so high, and it just murdered my sex drive. Now that Iām properly medicated and healing Iāll hopefully get better again and maybe my libido will return to how it used to be, maybe not. No one knows, because our bodies are crazy and can turn on a dime.
I could be wrong. Maybe this is something you need to leave over if you just canāt stand it. Maybe sheās not sick like me and thereās something else thatās causing her libido to fluctuate. But I can say I would be heartbroken if my partner had just decided that because I didnāt want to have sex like I used to that they couldnāt be with me anymore. And if the opposite happened? I would hope I can hold myself to the standard they have set by loving me, and caring for me, and helping me so much while I go through this.
Iām sure it doesnāt feel good to be turned down. But I can tell you as someone currently on the other side in that situation, it is nowhere near easy to have to look at someone you used to crave being that close to so much and still love unconditionally and have to hurt them with a ānoā over and over and over again. Makes me feel like an imposter in my own body sometimes.
Try therapy, both individually and together. It helps so much. She needs to open up and go to a damn doctor. She could just be having anxiety or depression, which is very common, but there might be something wrong and she needs to know, as do you. And never, I repeat NEVER stop communicating. Thatās the one biggest pillar that has held my relationship together through this, is open, honest and frequent communication about how we are both feeling and compromising on how we can help each other.
In the end, the choice is yours. Personally I think you both need to be giving equal effort into figuring out what the problem is and then fighting it together or itās simply not going to work. You should show her some of these comments and see if you can sway her to fight for the both of you. Itās what we did, and I hope you can too.
What a stupid relationship, probly a ragebait, cant be real
Fuck this idiot off There's nothing wrong with you don't let this fool ruin your self esteem, get rid he needs to grow up
For drugs? Absolutely.
I'm not lying to myself about anything. If I were, I wouldn't bother to make a post about it. I said right there, that I appreciate the fact that he's established and educated. It is important to me because I know what it's like to struggle, and I worked hard as hell with a toddler to get my degree. It doesn't make me sleazy to value financial security. It would make me sleazy to say that I don't when I do.
I appreciate your words though, however harsh. Because you touched on some valid points. I guess the guilt of even having this crush in the first place is what gets to me. I didn't think that it would be possible to be in love with one person and have crush on another person so it's made me doubt everything.
But I did want to correct you on one thing. My attraction to Shane is anything but superficial. Physically speaking, my current partner is objectively more attractive, our sex life is satisfying, and even though he does make less money than Shane, our incomes are comparable, so you're wrong there too. I make about 10K more a year, and we are comfortable.
It's not about the money. But the stability, you're correct there.
I really appreciate you saying that. A lot of other comments and messages havenāt been as kind.
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Had IUD for years now. Think it's amazing, just need to switch after 5 years and no period. For me it's wonderful
And how did he know she was going to hit him up, asking to back together? He can see the future now?
Yikes, yeah that's another good reason to divorce
Dude, you moved her to NYC and dumped her. Family???
If you're uncomfortable with it, you should express that. It's perfectly fine to have reasonable boundaries. It won't change his fantasies though. Sometimes a fantasy is just that, a fantasy and there's no need to see it realized. You're in a better position than me to judge how this can affect your relationship.