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I guess I'm trying to understand how you balance being an introvert and getting exhausted quickly from social events with hating being alone.
I think the first step is to enjoy being alone, there's a lot of things you can do when alone and a lot of power in being alone.
I'm also trying to understand how you're a year 1/2 in and yet just now trying to talk about this and figure this out. I don't think you two are compatible in the slightest.
It seems that you two have different personalities and different life styles. I'd recommend couples or individual therapy to help you adjust to plans changing. That has to do with you being able to give up control and go with the flow. Things are never going to end up exactly how you want them to and things happen, so you need to mentally shift gears in situations like this. However, you've also been doing this for a year and a half so I'm not sure what you expect to change now.
My first tangible piece of advice is to stop picking him up and make him Uber home or find another way home so he isn't reliant on you and so you don't have to plan the rest of your night around him.
Much of this story is not making sense. Hospitals still covid test prior to outside hospital transfers and before any surgeries. As some one who has worked many years in big city hospitals, I have never seen a MD send a PT right home after a stroke; especially a young 31 y/o and even the 2020 covid did not change this. Possible strokes, which a babbling 31 year old would have been considered (unless OP told them she shot up drugs) would have been rushed in with a code stroke being called over the intercom. From there, she would have been rapidly assessed for it, including swabbed for covid.
Then he talks about concern about make nurses then to later on how he talks about attempting sex with her even though she was, according to him, severely mentally disabled.
classic narcissist. leave while u can, sorry you wasted 7 years with an asshole. we're the same age so if there's anything i can advise you on is that you have so many years ahead of you and so many more people you haven't even met yet who are going to absolutely LOVE you. leave his ass.
Call the police and leave. Don't even bother to grab your stuff. Just get out of there and call the police. Once you get a hold of the police, ask them if they can accompany you back to the location so that you can retrieve your things. Tell them you are in fear of your life and that you have been assaulted and that you wish to press charges against the person who assaulted you.
So your husband believed this woman, with absolutely NO EVIDENCE?
What apart from apologise has he done? Because an apology just doesn't cut it in this situation.
I understand your comment about wanting your child to be with both of you, but he kicked you our while pregnant. Why did you have to leave and not him
The trust is gone. He's really messed up.
You don't have to rush with a decision… you can still decide later down the line, that you can't do this. He obviously feels really bad about it… so wait and see his he behaves when the baby arrives.
Maybe if he does some serious heavy lifting… your marriage may stand a chance and forgiveness may come.
If you feel you need time away from him before the birth… then please do that and go to your parents. Put YOURSELF first.
Choose the baby your husband isn’t right for you then. Your baby will be your world of you truly want a child. Sometimes you won’t get another chance.
Even if she chooses you, you need to leave her. She is lying and having an emotional affair. You can never trust her to be your partner for life ,as she would do it again in the future.
You don't need to confront her if you don't want, but break up is necessary.
i really hope one day you find a partner that can help take away that guilt you feel. i’m so sorry your ex made you feel like a “cheater” or “player” just for not cutting off everyone he doesn’t seem acceptable.
there are better people and relationships out there that will make you feel happy and whole inside, so i hope you realize you deserve better than a man who would rather control you than love you.
you sound like a lovely person and i’m sure you’d make a great partner to whoever your heart decides on next!
I guess I'm trying to understand how you balance being an introvert and getting exhausted quickly from social events with hating being alone.
I think the first step is to enjoy being alone, there's a lot of things you can do when alone and a lot of power in being alone.
I'm also trying to understand how you're a year 1/2 in and yet just now trying to talk about this and figure this out. I don't think you two are compatible in the slightest.
It seems that you two have different personalities and different life styles. I'd recommend couples or individual therapy to help you adjust to plans changing. That has to do with you being able to give up control and go with the flow. Things are never going to end up exactly how you want them to and things happen, so you need to mentally shift gears in situations like this. However, you've also been doing this for a year and a half so I'm not sure what you expect to change now.
My first tangible piece of advice is to stop picking him up and make him Uber home or find another way home so he isn't reliant on you and so you don't have to plan the rest of your night around him.
Much of this story is not making sense. Hospitals still covid test prior to outside hospital transfers and before any surgeries. As some one who has worked many years in big city hospitals, I have never seen a MD send a PT right home after a stroke; especially a young 31 y/o and even the 2020 covid did not change this. Possible strokes, which a babbling 31 year old would have been considered (unless OP told them she shot up drugs) would have been rushed in with a code stroke being called over the intercom. From there, she would have been rapidly assessed for it, including swabbed for covid.
Then he talks about concern about make nurses then to later on how he talks about attempting sex with her even though she was, according to him, severely mentally disabled.
classic narcissist. leave while u can, sorry you wasted 7 years with an asshole. we're the same age so if there's anything i can advise you on is that you have so many years ahead of you and so many more people you haven't even met yet who are going to absolutely LOVE you. leave his ass.
Call the police and leave. Don't even bother to grab your stuff. Just get out of there and call the police. Once you get a hold of the police, ask them if they can accompany you back to the location so that you can retrieve your things. Tell them you are in fear of your life and that you have been assaulted and that you wish to press charges against the person who assaulted you.
Genetically speaking it is impossible for two blue eyed people to have a brown eyed child. So there is a huge chance this is not your child.
So your husband believed this woman, with absolutely NO EVIDENCE?
What apart from apologise has he done? Because an apology just doesn't cut it in this situation.
I understand your comment about wanting your child to be with both of you, but he kicked you our while pregnant. Why did you have to leave and not him
The trust is gone. He's really messed up.
You don't have to rush with a decision… you can still decide later down the line, that you can't do this. He obviously feels really bad about it… so wait and see his he behaves when the baby arrives.
Maybe if he does some serious heavy lifting… your marriage may stand a chance and forgiveness may come.
If you feel you need time away from him before the birth… then please do that and go to your parents. Put YOURSELF first.
Choose the baby your husband isn’t right for you then. Your baby will be your world of you truly want a child. Sometimes you won’t get another chance.
This is the rule. If you have doubts about it, it means you definitely shouldn't.
Even if she chooses you, you need to leave her. She is lying and having an emotional affair. You can never trust her to be your partner for life ,as she would do it again in the future.
You don't need to confront her if you don't want, but break up is necessary.
That's not the same at all. Apples to oranges
i really hope one day you find a partner that can help take away that guilt you feel. i’m so sorry your ex made you feel like a “cheater” or “player” just for not cutting off everyone he doesn’t seem acceptable.
there are better people and relationships out there that will make you feel happy and whole inside, so i hope you realize you deserve better than a man who would rather control you than love you.
you sound like a lovely person and i’m sure you’d make a great partner to whoever your heart decides on next!