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I have had a really rough road …uh yea I think therapy might be best for me. Tbh I was always depressed and had extreme anxiety and I’ve just been smoking to suppress it and I think it’s time.
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My husband (M-33) and I (F-30) found out last week that we are expecting our first, and we are so excited. I am very early, only just passing the six week mark, but a discussion around telling people has already started.
For reference, his parents (M-71 and F-67s) are an absolute dream, literal angels. These are people who have stood by and supported us through thick and thin, and would give us the shirts off their back if they could. I could not have asked for better people in my life, and it was an automatic reaction to phone them as soon as we got the news. They are overjoyed at being grandparents.
The challenge comes with my parents (M-60 and F-55). My parents are very rigid in their opinions and are emotionally manipualtive. Over the years, my interaction with them has decreased but we still keep in touch infrequently. They do not like or approve of my husband, they do not like my career choice, and they think I got married too early (we were married six years ago when I was 24).
I know that they would not approve of a pregnancy, but this is supported by the fact that when I was a bit unwell about six months ago, my mom's one and only message to me was “I hope you aren't pregnant. :)” Now you see my dilemma, how on earth do we tell them?
My husband said we should wait until about three months before we tell them, which is totally fine, but I absolutely know it will be a huge drama that they didn't find out earlier and that I don't share enough with them. Trust and love will be called into question, and I will be given some kind of a lecture about not caring. The alternative is to tell them now and deal with the drama of them not approving and telling me that this is a bad decision (a lecture I will get regardless). My husband said that I need to be strong with them and tell them that we shared the news when we were ready, and that the decision to have a baby is for him and I to make without their involvement.
I don't know what to do, I don't know a) when to tell them, and b) how to avoid the drama of everything. If anyone has dealt with something similar, please share any advice! Thank you in advance!
The concept of being 'madly in love' fluctuates from person-to-person and varies greatly between couples. Love is often a thing built upon years of trust and deep understanding, not the honeymoon phase of 'mad love', energy, and obsession we typically see it as.
My girlfriend is planning on studying abroad for the year, not living there indefinitely, which makes things more manageable between us if we do decide to go long-distance.
When you say there's no sense of 'urgency or passion' what exactly do you mean by that? From me, or from her? – From her side, she just wants to experience the feeling of independent living and exposure to a new country/culture. From my side, I won't trample on her dream. We are still both passionate about our love and relationship.
She is more confident than me that things will work out. I am naturally pessimistic which can make me seem devoid of passion or enthusiasm, but in reality I'm just worrying myself by considering 'worst case scenarios'. I am willing to try long-distance, but I am naturally quite worried about the future of our relationship. I suppose if I online in fear of the future all the time I'll take away my happiness of the moment.
I have had a really rough road …uh yea I think therapy might be best for me. Tbh I was always depressed and had extreme anxiety and I’ve just been smoking to suppress it and I think it’s time.
Right? Time to decide if being a single parent is a better life!
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My husband (M-33) and I (F-30) found out last week that we are expecting our first, and we are so excited. I am very early, only just passing the six week mark, but a discussion around telling people has already started.
For reference, his parents (M-71 and F-67s) are an absolute dream, literal angels. These are people who have stood by and supported us through thick and thin, and would give us the shirts off their back if they could. I could not have asked for better people in my life, and it was an automatic reaction to phone them as soon as we got the news. They are overjoyed at being grandparents.
The challenge comes with my parents (M-60 and F-55). My parents are very rigid in their opinions and are emotionally manipualtive. Over the years, my interaction with them has decreased but we still keep in touch infrequently. They do not like or approve of my husband, they do not like my career choice, and they think I got married too early (we were married six years ago when I was 24).
I know that they would not approve of a pregnancy, but this is supported by the fact that when I was a bit unwell about six months ago, my mom's one and only message to me was “I hope you aren't pregnant. :)” Now you see my dilemma, how on earth do we tell them?
My husband said we should wait until about three months before we tell them, which is totally fine, but I absolutely know it will be a huge drama that they didn't find out earlier and that I don't share enough with them. Trust and love will be called into question, and I will be given some kind of a lecture about not caring. The alternative is to tell them now and deal with the drama of them not approving and telling me that this is a bad decision (a lecture I will get regardless). My husband said that I need to be strong with them and tell them that we shared the news when we were ready, and that the decision to have a baby is for him and I to make without their involvement.
I don't know what to do, I don't know a) when to tell them, and b) how to avoid the drama of everything. If anyone has dealt with something similar, please share any advice! Thank you in advance!
Hey, thanks for the comment.
The concept of being 'madly in love' fluctuates from person-to-person and varies greatly between couples. Love is often a thing built upon years of trust and deep understanding, not the honeymoon phase of 'mad love', energy, and obsession we typically see it as.
My girlfriend is planning on studying abroad for the year, not living there indefinitely, which makes things more manageable between us if we do decide to go long-distance.
When you say there's no sense of 'urgency or passion' what exactly do you mean by that? From me, or from her? – From her side, she just wants to experience the feeling of independent living and exposure to a new country/culture. From my side, I won't trample on her dream. We are still both passionate about our love and relationship.
She is more confident than me that things will work out. I am naturally pessimistic which can make me seem devoid of passion or enthusiasm, but in reality I'm just worrying myself by considering 'worst case scenarios'. I am willing to try long-distance, but I am naturally quite worried about the future of our relationship. I suppose if I online in fear of the future all the time I'll take away my happiness of the moment.
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