There is no coming back from this. No matter what he says. He's shown his true colors. Quietly get everything organized. Speak to an attorney and get advice on how to proceed. Divorce him. Never look back.
If she doesn’t want to be with you anymore she should just end it. I haven’t had any thoughts about cheating on her since i met my fiancee, she is the only one i really want to have sex with. If she wants to sleep around she can go ahead and do that…when she’s single again
So much this one. My boyfriend has done this a few times (the giving me a gift that was more for himself than for me – not the photos thing) and it is very nude to be appreciative of such a gift. Honestly I still get angry when I talk about it because it’s quite disrespectful of your partner to do this. OP is doing something she really wanted to do (get lingerie photos of herself) and is hiding it behind it being for her husband and then getting angry that he’s not over the moon when it’s clearly not something he wants and is further dictating what he has to do with the gift.
Reddit woke up feeling prude today. I’m a male and I would love it if my wife did this. I can’t imagine my wife trying to be sexy for me and making her feel bad about it. The bedroom is the perfect place because you have that privacy. Team wall.
Sounds like a narcissist mom.
There is no coming back from this. No matter what he says. He's shown his true colors. Quietly get everything organized. Speak to an attorney and get advice on how to proceed. Divorce him. Never look back.
He loves you but wants to open the relationship for you? Am I missing smthing? I don’t understand.
If she doesn’t want to be with you anymore she should just end it. I haven’t had any thoughts about cheating on her since i met my fiancee, she is the only one i really want to have sex with. If she wants to sleep around she can go ahead and do that…when she’s single again
Cancel the flight, divorce your wife. Cut that nastiness off and don’t look back
Friends don't rape.
Don’t act like you’re not a huge POS in this story as well.
He didn't, he just asked for advice.
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So much this one. My boyfriend has done this a few times (the giving me a gift that was more for himself than for me – not the photos thing) and it is very nude to be appreciative of such a gift. Honestly I still get angry when I talk about it because it’s quite disrespectful of your partner to do this. OP is doing something she really wanted to do (get lingerie photos of herself) and is hiding it behind it being for her husband and then getting angry that he’s not over the moon when it’s clearly not something he wants and is further dictating what he has to do with the gift.
Reddit woke up feeling prude today. I’m a male and I would love it if my wife did this. I can’t imagine my wife trying to be sexy for me and making her feel bad about it. The bedroom is the perfect place because you have that privacy. Team wall.
It wasn't planned to be temporary.
Well, hopefully he doesn't reproduce.
but leaving for weeks isnt an option that's available to her.
It would be fine if she had specific plans to return.
Well my dude, to put it simply: pick the ball up! You wanna get laid, pull your weight.
Thought policing? Yes, that's a very serious issue.. not just in a relationship but in general. Thought policing is dangerous and creepy as fuck.
Did you delete the photos? I would have, just to watch how they react (and hide your diary).