You could practiced listening while he speaks, and just respond “I hear you”. Nothing more. If it's not your doing, it's not your fault and he can say what he wants, but don't take on responsibility. Try that.
I mean literally the concept anchors on bodily autonomy. An externally frozen IVF embryo isn't your body. It's not in your body. Like there's just no extension of that reasoning that brings that under this.
Condoms mostly “fail” from misuse.
People self report they used condoms and got pregnant.
If he used a condom correctly the failure rate is really low.
It's perfect normal for a high-libido young man.
You guys are fundamentally different. You are allowed to be uncomfortable and are allowed to set a boundary that your partner cannot watch porn.
He is allowed to watch porn and find a partner that doesn't mind this.
Neither are bad, but you may need to look for a partner in someone else who doesn't watch porn.
Don't feed the troll. Obviously, they are the ones that don't know.
You could practiced listening while he speaks, and just respond “I hear you”. Nothing more. If it's not your doing, it's not your fault and he can say what he wants, but don't take on responsibility. Try that.
I mean literally the concept anchors on bodily autonomy. An externally frozen IVF embryo isn't your body. It's not in your body. Like there's just no extension of that reasoning that brings that under this.