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agreed. these very real and harsh terms are watered down on Reddit.
This might be a great chance to start over in your city. If you like your job and don't want to quit maybe look for a place of your own, or one with roommates! I've found some of my greatest and closest friends via needing roommates in the city! also found some real duds so it's hit or miss.
A lot of cities are large enough that changing neighborhoods can almost make it feel like a completely different city.
Best of luck, sorry you're going through this.
I get that most of Reddit lives in a bubble and are extremely biased in their worldviews, neuroses etc thinking the rest of the world is like it is on here when it’s not, but since when is having contrary opinions considered a troll? What exactly is a troll about what I said? I literally just spit facts about finances, quality of life for them and that friends aren’t enough to keep you somewhere and that as people age they see their friends less bc life happens sweetie. Where’s the lie? I’m not bored enough with my life to even look at your profile bc I can tell from your comment there’s not much going on there. And you’re literally on relationship advice too, so how pleasant are you lol.
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She probably talked to her friend and her friend filled her head with a bunch of shit like “he's gaslighting you” and “hunny he definitely cheating”
You cant convince her you arent cheating. Sounds like this relationship ended awhile ago.
Hi OP, in addition to all the other advice in terms of going no contact, I also want to note that it's super important you be around people for a while and watch your back. People like your ex have been known to go off the rails and try to take others with them, usually an ex like yourself. Please be careful.
Why does she want him there so bad? Could it be that it's not so much about bringing him or is it the fact that you would say “no” and somehow be controlling? I could see someone bring an ex partner as a way to test their partner to see if they're controlling, either as an act of insecurity or trying to see how much power they have over their partner.
I would be having second thoughts about marriage with her but that is a huge decision and all we know is that she seems toxic af from this argument. I'm curious why she wants him there, whats their history?
Never again? Possibly. She could always change her mind but the difference between the two of you is you actually enjoy going down on her and she doesn't enjoy going down on you.
When I met my husband blow jobs were off the table. I hated it. But since then I've learned to love it. That was a me thing. I grew up super repressed (Catholic/Baptist parents) and everything sexual was a sin. I couldn't get it out of my head that it was somehow wrong. And it was a power issue that I wasn't okay with. I had to do the personal work to get over all that and move on.
Whether she has history or not though, some people just aren't into it. Similarly to people not being into bdsm or not being into any other kink. If you didn't like a specific thing and she kept asking you to do it you'd want a break too.
I've seen Google say I was somewhere when I wasn't. It's never that far from where I've been. So if this dude lives near her place of work, I suppose there's a chance it could have been accidentally.
But the chances of that must be astronomical. Like it picked his address out of what must have been hundreds, in the radius surrounding her job. That's just insane. Easier to accept the fact that she's lying and having an affair.
I assume that most poly relationships, have always been poly. That people with like minded values go into this type of relationship from the start. I think that if you are in monogamous relationship for years then suddenly you learn your SO doesn’t want to stay monotonous, it changes how you view that person, and the future of the relationship. Because you realize your values aren’t the same. How can a relationship survive if the people involved see their relationship differently? Why does she need to go to therapy to figure out why she feels the marriage is likely over? She knows why. Therapy might help in how they decide to co parent, go forward from here and help express her pain. But I don’t think she needs it to figure out why she feels the way she does. He threw away everything, she didn’t. It’s been months since he said he wanted to sleep with other people, I don’t think she’s being hasty
You’re feeling shitty because you know you put yourself in this situation. And can you really keep your job (or will you even want to) if he decides he’s had his fun and now wants to be with someone who isn’t a subordinate?
Sure you can tell him. Will it change anything, or just make him start to worry you’re becoming a problem? Would he risk his job to make you happy? I don’t know this situation, but those are the things you’re going to have to consider.
Ok, so this is totally fucked and super scary. Contact a lawyer ASAP and maybe hire a private detective to snoop around the break ins and your husbands actions. Clearly he is being very suspicious, beyond mere infidelity.
So younger men can’t be toxic and manipulate? Young men can’t use his power over you ? Lol. Yeah
There are women who can’t even get a phone password.
I just wanted sex after a baby. Which is a normal thing that happens with relationships all the time.
His ex hurt him and I think he thinks this is evidence that I’m doing the same by disregarding his feelings. Some scars run deep I guess. It was wrong for me to maybe joke like that in public where people don’t know our banter and ins and outs. I too wonder if it’s just an excuse and the bigger picture is that he simply wants out. I just can’t imagine how one incident of maybe being disrespectful has become so destructive. We all make mistakes. I should also mention that he has ADHD and kid be hyperfocusing on that comment rather than looking at the bigger picture