Just break up already. If you're both unable to put each others needs ahead of your own then you're both just selfish and should find people you're more compatible with
This is about 1000x more likely than him torpedoing his exs best friends relationship. I know some people go nuclear but unless OP was involved in the breakup somehow I doubt it.
OP I would personally do some snooping and try to reach out to the other party. There is a decent chance (if it happened) they didnt know she was involved with someone.
All marriages get shaky and get shakier when people hide their true feelings from their partner and entertain “alternate” ideas. Pull back from the coworker and double down in your marriage. Be honest with your partner and try to work things out. You all owe each other that and it will lead you quicker to the truth of what is really going on.
Just break up already. If you're both unable to put each others needs ahead of your own then you're both just selfish and should find people you're more compatible with
This is about 1000x more likely than him torpedoing his exs best friends relationship. I know some people go nuclear but unless OP was involved in the breakup somehow I doubt it.
OP I would personally do some snooping and try to reach out to the other party. There is a decent chance (if it happened) they didnt know she was involved with someone.
All marriages get shaky and get shakier when people hide their true feelings from their partner and entertain “alternate” ideas. Pull back from the coworker and double down in your marriage. Be honest with your partner and try to work things out. You all owe each other that and it will lead you quicker to the truth of what is really going on.
He should’ve kept the kittens and moved the gf out.
You use the word
DREAD
In your title. The concern and hesitation is clear in your entire post. This is not what you want.
So. Don’t. Agree. To. It.
If your relationship ends it would have ended anyway with you being miserable that he was f*cking other people.