That's on Raul then, he knew you had a partner, but didn't care about the consequences of his actions nor does he respect your relationship. You also can't control other people's actions nor can you make decisions for others.
What's shitty is she pressured her husband into joining a vacation club so they-plural- could enjoy time together with her sister and her sister's husband. Then after pressuring him to waste their/ his time and money on it she realized she just preferred freeloading off of said sister and husband. Now instead of admitting this to her husband she is blaming him for how she feels and looking to strangers on the internet to validate her. There's nothing at all wrong with spending time apart from your S/O or doing different things from them. It's 100% healthy and necessary for long term relationships. What's shitty is the way she went about it. You wanna do something on your own, that's fine. But don't rope your S/O into it, then try to blame them when you no longer enjoy it.
Normal hygene followed for the both of us especially for her (she tries to follow those diet things that affect the acidity of your vagina)
Even after all that, I can only handle the smell for like half a minute max. It actually makes me physically gag. The taste is nothing, but the smell punches hard.
I have sensitive smell in the sense that perfumes and colognes that people consider “mild” actually gets a physical reaction for me – stabs my nose and gives me a headache.
Even if all of those are true, your BF definitely had wayyy better ways to deal the news to you. Unfortunately, my partner found out how I felt about it since I couldn’t hold back my gagging reflex. Nevertheless, BF could’ve just told you at a sit down conversation or ushered it in a bit nicely.
That's kinda rape ngl.
Mimi is not your friend.
That's on Raul then, he knew you had a partner, but didn't care about the consequences of his actions nor does he respect your relationship. You also can't control other people's actions nor can you make decisions for others.
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
What's shitty is she pressured her husband into joining a vacation club so they-plural- could enjoy time together with her sister and her sister's husband. Then after pressuring him to waste their/ his time and money on it she realized she just preferred freeloading off of said sister and husband. Now instead of admitting this to her husband she is blaming him for how she feels and looking to strangers on the internet to validate her. There's nothing at all wrong with spending time apart from your S/O or doing different things from them. It's 100% healthy and necessary for long term relationships. What's shitty is the way she went about it. You wanna do something on your own, that's fine. But don't rope your S/O into it, then try to blame them when you no longer enjoy it.
Tell him to move out. He wasn't ready to live! on his own and have an adult relationship. You guys can still date but he needs to mature.
Had this happen as well (am the guy)
Normal hygene followed for the both of us especially for her (she tries to follow those diet things that affect the acidity of your vagina)
Even after all that, I can only handle the smell for like half a minute max. It actually makes me physically gag. The taste is nothing, but the smell punches hard.
I have sensitive smell in the sense that perfumes and colognes that people consider “mild” actually gets a physical reaction for me – stabs my nose and gives me a headache.
Even if all of those are true, your BF definitely had wayyy better ways to deal the news to you. Unfortunately, my partner found out how I felt about it since I couldn’t hold back my gagging reflex. Nevertheless, BF could’ve just told you at a sit down conversation or ushered it in a bit nicely.
I’m just going to point out that it isn’t as easy as you imply to use regular birth control when you are in an abusive relationship.
You want him to be a different person than he is. And you are judging him for not being that person.
He's an adult and it's not his girlfriend's job to “coach” him through life and explain why his decision making is poor.
Oh, let me just say even if she did see a therapist I think you should leave all the same.