Why do you assume she is creeping, maybe she just see her son social media, but he is tagged in their social media so it appears in her sugerences. Now she wants to remove him from his live! as the last link to them, so yes she won't be creeping their social media finally.
5 kids at age 27 isn't bad luck. It's a pattern. She gets pregnant with guys before knowing who they are, like a baby is going to be the foundation of a relationship. Just like she is doing with you
Your best friends are hopefully not connected to the person who slept with your husband. It’s very hot for me to think people have your best interest at heart of they’re ignoring your feelings.
It was a totally valid and healthy response to the lack of baby to stop trying with your husband, subjecting yourself to the anxiety and disappointment. It is also normal to feel betrayed he slept with someone a week after surprising you with the request to separate.
Do you have more casual friends who you could reach out to for socialization and support? People you may have lost touch with who might have mom advice? You need a new Team You as you plan for this baby, coparenting, and dating your coworker (or others when/if you’re ready).
No specific date, we've just talked about it a lot and are excited to do it. Probably in around 2 years we'd have a wedding? By then hopefully I'll have a car and wouldn't be as stressed because the worst case scenario wouldn't be nearly as bad in that case.
Maybe, but that's also how this kind of person has a fight. Instead of responding to valid criticism, they change the subject to make themselves “right”.
I didn’t want to chalk his behavior up to emotional battery, seems a bit extreme, but I guess you could be right.
As for the why, on my part, I don’t like giving up on people and have been constantly asking him how I can help him better remember things or give him tips on how to manage his mental health…all of which are just met with “My brain is just fucked. I need medication and I can’t get any”. Even though he hasn’t even begun the process of getting diagnosed for anything.
No it's not. This is not acceptable. Your partner doesn't even stand up for you. He thinks less of you than his sexist asshole dad. He will put you through way more of this in the future. I'm sorry you have to go through this but this a very toxic situation to be in, especially for the kid later on.
It has transitioned into acquaintance type inferences. But I never really asked. I just figured when she said she will handle it she meant what I assumed meant handling.
That was my falter in communication early on. I just found it to be uncharacteristic to ask vs someone just doing it.
You’re being just as manipulative as him. Chicken and egg situation. Both of y’all need to lower your pride if you want to find peace. Weaponizing sex isn’t healthy and neither is no emotional attachment. Seek out a marriage counselor who can help with repairing relationships
Maybe ask a trained professional if it’s possible not to be passed to you to be 100% sure. Then you’ll know.
That dude is pretty open about all his red flags in the beginning.
Why do you assume she is creeping, maybe she just see her son social media, but he is tagged in their social media so it appears in her sugerences. Now she wants to remove him from his live! as the last link to them, so yes she won't be creeping their social media finally.
Most reasonable take yet
5 kids at age 27 isn't bad luck. It's a pattern. She gets pregnant with guys before knowing who they are, like a baby is going to be the foundation of a relationship. Just like she is doing with you
Your best friends are hopefully not connected to the person who slept with your husband. It’s very hot for me to think people have your best interest at heart of they’re ignoring your feelings.
It was a totally valid and healthy response to the lack of baby to stop trying with your husband, subjecting yourself to the anxiety and disappointment. It is also normal to feel betrayed he slept with someone a week after surprising you with the request to separate.
Do you have more casual friends who you could reach out to for socialization and support? People you may have lost touch with who might have mom advice? You need a new Team You as you plan for this baby, coparenting, and dating your coworker (or others when/if you’re ready).
No specific date, we've just talked about it a lot and are excited to do it. Probably in around 2 years we'd have a wedding? By then hopefully I'll have a car and wouldn't be as stressed because the worst case scenario wouldn't be nearly as bad in that case.
Maybe, but that's also how this kind of person has a fight. Instead of responding to valid criticism, they change the subject to make themselves “right”.
Nope don't drop it.
Be smart here.
You left the jerk that cheated on you. I don’t see any mistakes made here.
I didn’t want to chalk his behavior up to emotional battery, seems a bit extreme, but I guess you could be right.
As for the why, on my part, I don’t like giving up on people and have been constantly asking him how I can help him better remember things or give him tips on how to manage his mental health…all of which are just met with “My brain is just fucked. I need medication and I can’t get any”. Even though he hasn’t even begun the process of getting diagnosed for anything.
No it's not. This is not acceptable. Your partner doesn't even stand up for you. He thinks less of you than his sexist asshole dad. He will put you through way more of this in the future. I'm sorry you have to go through this but this a very toxic situation to be in, especially for the kid later on.
Check it out, it's about woman using the excuse sorry I fell asleep
It has transitioned into acquaintance type inferences. But I never really asked. I just figured when she said she will handle it she meant what I assumed meant handling.
That was my falter in communication early on. I just found it to be uncharacteristic to ask vs someone just doing it.
You’re being just as manipulative as him. Chicken and egg situation. Both of y’all need to lower your pride if you want to find peace. Weaponizing sex isn’t healthy and neither is no emotional attachment. Seek out a marriage counselor who can help with repairing relationships