Press charges. Doesn’t matter if it’s family, there is no way anyone should be let off with no consequences for something so disgusting. Take the dog to a vet to check for injuries first, if there is anything and I mean ANYTHING you call the cops. Your sister is an evil spawn of Satan for attacking a vulnerable animal.
just so you know buying a girl a ÂŁ150 gift is a big deal. warning signs would of been going off in her head, as they should. she slept with someone because you dumped her. she probably thought you was fucking the co worker. tbh i think you probably was too.
you neglected your gf but spoil your co worker. come on that’s dodgy af!
Tell your FIL to have a nice life. I'm traditonal when it comes to last names, however people have the freedom to name their children, I wouldn't force it on other people or coerce them or use emotional blackmail on them like you FIL is.
Wtf? I thought my 1k was bad. Fucking hell. This shows a serous lack of responsibility. Id not want her to move in personally until she gets her shit together
What happens when she puts you both in debt? Has she dealt with her spending problem?
I realise she is due to have nowhere to online but this is kind of 100% her fault for not being honest about this before. Shes done this knowing youll feel obligated for her to move in now. Really not cool behaviour here.
yeah.. Instead of asking I wait for him to bring up the subject on his own time. He is younger and takes things in a different time than me and I am actually patient with him. He has shown actual love and support towards me in difficult times and honestly that is more important for me…
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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I have been beyond happy with our relationship. He truly is the love of my life, and I have never been this in love with anyone before.
For the past 2 years I have been waiting for him to propose to me, when we would go on beautiful vacations I would get my hopes up extremely high, and I would end up being so utterly disappointed when he wouldn't propose, that I would be holding back tears for days after.
I couldn't handle this emotional roller coaster pattern anymore, and I finally asked him when he was going to propose to me. It felt like my heart was going to stop from shock when he responded by simply saying “never”.
After a long and heart wrenching conversation he explained that he “never planned to propose” to me, because he doesn't believe in marriage, and that the “United States government incentives women to divorce their husbands and take all of their money”.
I honestly don't know what to do from here, and I am completely heartbroken. Any advice??
Yeah, you need to take a step back and figure out why you have all this rage. I get it, I'm absolutely protective of people I care about. But it doesn't need to go 0-100. The more angry you get in your relationship, the bigger risk YOU are to the relationship than actual external factors. Not only are you prepping her for you possibly doing something foolish to someone else, she might also be envisioning what might happen if SHE pissed you off.
Take some time for that to sink in. If you're this quick to trigger this level of anger and also you hold that resentment in for a long time, you might want to seek some anger management or counseling. It's not healthy long term for you or your relationships.
There is no way that THREE people with similar eating disorders should be hanging out. Doesn’t seem like they have recovered at all, they’re just not in the hospital right now.
Tell them and find out their reaction. If they are happy for you, then it's all wonderful. If either start to complain about your pregnancy, let them know that if they want to be kept informed, or in your life, that they need to keep their negativity to themself. If not, let them know they will be placed on time out with increasing duration for each transgression. And then maintain an information diet. Go LC/NC if needed. Your family, including pregnancy, are what matters – not anyone's negative opinions.
My grandfather literally buys normal men's shorts and has them professionally shortened into Daisy Dukes.
I will say, for a 92 year old, he has the legs to pull it off…
Right?? Go build Jake an art room and let your gf go find someone better than you.
Ah, troll post. I was pretty sure, but now I know.
Press charges. Doesn’t matter if it’s family, there is no way anyone should be let off with no consequences for something so disgusting. Take the dog to a vet to check for injuries first, if there is anything and I mean ANYTHING you call the cops. Your sister is an evil spawn of Satan for attacking a vulnerable animal.
just so you know buying a girl a ÂŁ150 gift is a big deal. warning signs would of been going off in her head, as they should. she slept with someone because you dumped her. she probably thought you was fucking the co worker. tbh i think you probably was too.
you neglected your gf but spoil your co worker. come on that’s dodgy af!
You need to call the cops, call family, call whomever you need to get the F out of this situation before he kills you
Tell your FIL to have a nice life. I'm traditonal when it comes to last names, however people have the freedom to name their children, I wouldn't force it on other people or coerce them or use emotional blackmail on them like you FIL is.
100K??
Wtf? I thought my 1k was bad. Fucking hell. This shows a serous lack of responsibility. Id not want her to move in personally until she gets her shit together
What happens when she puts you both in debt? Has she dealt with her spending problem?
I realise she is due to have nowhere to online but this is kind of 100% her fault for not being honest about this before. Shes done this knowing youll feel obligated for her to move in now. Really not cool behaviour here.
yeah.. Instead of asking I wait for him to bring up the subject on his own time. He is younger and takes things in a different time than me and I am actually patient with him. He has shown actual love and support towards me in difficult times and honestly that is more important for me…
Do better research. In Canada:
”Examples of coercive behaviours include:
Pressuring and Badgering
Asking for sex repeatedly – Please, come on, I really like you, I need this.
What are you waiting for? Don’t be such a prude. Everyone our age is having sex.
Come on now, you gave me the impression that you wanted to have sex.
It is your duty as my wife to have sex with me. Threats and Intimidations
If you don’t have sex with me, I will harm you/harm the children/harm the pets.
Emotional Manipulation and Guilt-tripping
If you don’t have sex with me, I will break up with you.
If you don’t have sex with me, I will tell your family that you are gay.
If you don’t have sex with me, I will send nude photos of you to your parents.
You must not love me as much as you say you do. You would do this if you loved me.
Coercion is confusing and distressing.”
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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I have been beyond happy with our relationship. He truly is the love of my life, and I have never been this in love with anyone before.
For the past 2 years I have been waiting for him to propose to me, when we would go on beautiful vacations I would get my hopes up extremely high, and I would end up being so utterly disappointed when he wouldn't propose, that I would be holding back tears for days after.
I couldn't handle this emotional roller coaster pattern anymore, and I finally asked him when he was going to propose to me. It felt like my heart was going to stop from shock when he responded by simply saying “never”.
After a long and heart wrenching conversation he explained that he “never planned to propose” to me, because he doesn't believe in marriage, and that the “United States government incentives women to divorce their husbands and take all of their money”.
I honestly don't know what to do from here, and I am completely heartbroken. Any advice??
Yeah, you need to take a step back and figure out why you have all this rage. I get it, I'm absolutely protective of people I care about. But it doesn't need to go 0-100. The more angry you get in your relationship, the bigger risk YOU are to the relationship than actual external factors. Not only are you prepping her for you possibly doing something foolish to someone else, she might also be envisioning what might happen if SHE pissed you off.
Take some time for that to sink in. If you're this quick to trigger this level of anger and also you hold that resentment in for a long time, you might want to seek some anger management or counseling. It's not healthy long term for you or your relationships.
There is no way that THREE people with similar eating disorders should be hanging out. Doesn’t seem like they have recovered at all, they’re just not in the hospital right now.
Tell them and find out their reaction. If they are happy for you, then it's all wonderful. If either start to complain about your pregnancy, let them know that if they want to be kept informed, or in your life, that they need to keep their negativity to themself. If not, let them know they will be placed on time out with increasing duration for each transgression. And then maintain an information diet. Go LC/NC if needed. Your family, including pregnancy, are what matters – not anyone's negative opinions.