Find a dictionary. Look up the words gentle and sweet. Read the definitions. Then look up asshole. Read that definition. Then realize youโre using the wrong words to describe your bf.
let's assume in a world of rainbows and butterflies this man is just friends with Mariana
here's what it comes down to;
he thinks his wants and needs supersede those of the relationship and partner- he sees no compromise he will do as he please despite it making you feel uncomfortable and upset
you think a partner should come to the table and compromise to ensure you feel secure and comfortable
at best, you are incompatible at worst though, you are being gaslit into accepting subpar treatment from quite frankly what sounds like a shitty boyfriend
NAH unless you're nagging her about it. You're allowed to share your feelings about this. Once. And then you take her answer for what it is and let it go.
Lawyer up.
Thank you for commenting I really appreciate the advice you left,
I disagree. there were no semantics on my part. nothing of what I said where similar or repeated arguments in different wording.
but, sure.
Find a dictionary. Look up the words gentle and sweet. Read the definitions. Then look up asshole. Read that definition. Then realize youโre using the wrong words to describe your bf.
let's assume in a world of rainbows and butterflies this man is just friends with Mariana
here's what it comes down to;
he thinks his wants and needs supersede those of the relationship and partner- he sees no compromise he will do as he please despite it making you feel uncomfortable and upset
you think a partner should come to the table and compromise to ensure you feel secure and comfortable
at best, you are incompatible at worst though, you are being gaslit into accepting subpar treatment from quite frankly what sounds like a shitty boyfriend
move on
NAH unless you're nagging her about it. You're allowed to share your feelings about this. Once. And then you take her answer for what it is and let it go.