He’s talking about his “sacrifices” but what about yours? – you have gave this man a good chunk of your life, your heart and your body to bring his children into the world. You have tried and he has been dismissive and unappreciative.
Haven’t you already given him enough? What about you? Don’t you deserve to be happy and have someone pour their heart into you too? Someone who values you and appreciates what you do? Someone who enjoys spending time with you and is happy over the life you’ve both built?
Even now, he speaks only about himself and what HE stands to lose – no care for how you and your children feel.
Children are incredibly perceptive of the world around them, if you’ve noticed a huge distance between you, guarantee so have your children – and they will believe this to be what’s normal or what to expect in a relationship which as we both know, isn’t the case or healthy.
It’s time you stopped investing in a man who has never invested in you. Go and live! a beautiful and fulfilling life and show your children that actually, this isn’t normal, it’s not acceptable and that people cannot treat you like this. You’re all worth more and deserving of it.
Let him waste his life being a sad loser of a man who threw away everything because he cannot see beyond himself. Just because he’s miserable doesn’t mean you need to be too.
He is living rent free and doesn’t pay any bills. That little boy better have the house spotless and take care of all your needs! No grown man should act like that. He didn’t want to go he could had order it to just pick it up or it be delivered. Do yourself a favor dump him and never look back.
Literally the definition of rape
Oh OP my heart really does break for you.
He’s talking about his “sacrifices” but what about yours? – you have gave this man a good chunk of your life, your heart and your body to bring his children into the world. You have tried and he has been dismissive and unappreciative.
Haven’t you already given him enough? What about you? Don’t you deserve to be happy and have someone pour their heart into you too? Someone who values you and appreciates what you do? Someone who enjoys spending time with you and is happy over the life you’ve both built?
Even now, he speaks only about himself and what HE stands to lose – no care for how you and your children feel.
Children are incredibly perceptive of the world around them, if you’ve noticed a huge distance between you, guarantee so have your children – and they will believe this to be what’s normal or what to expect in a relationship which as we both know, isn’t the case or healthy.
It’s time you stopped investing in a man who has never invested in you. Go and live! a beautiful and fulfilling life and show your children that actually, this isn’t normal, it’s not acceptable and that people cannot treat you like this. You’re all worth more and deserving of it.
Let him waste his life being a sad loser of a man who threw away everything because he cannot see beyond himself. Just because he’s miserable doesn’t mean you need to be too.
Thank you. I'll hold onto the hope that things will get better.
*hugs
He is living rent free and doesn’t pay any bills. That little boy better have the house spotless and take care of all your needs! No grown man should act like that. He didn’t want to go he could had order it to just pick it up or it be delivered. Do yourself a favor dump him and never look back.