– He pursued sex, she said no. – He massaged her hoping she would get aroused and tried again, she said no. – He stopped and left.
That's the story.
When we invite someone to increase their level of intimate physical contact with us, via a massage or whatever, it is a pretty common and reasonable thing to read into that a desire for increased physical intimacy.
He says he read signals, she said she didn't intend to send those signals.
Take your 3 weeks worth of good memories and move on.
Talk about a risky gamble
– He pursued sex, she said no. – He massaged her hoping she would get aroused and tried again, she said no. – He stopped and left.
That's the story.
When we invite someone to increase their level of intimate physical contact with us, via a massage or whatever, it is a pretty common and reasonable thing to read into that a desire for increased physical intimacy.
He says he read signals, she said she didn't intend to send those signals.
???
Ok, got it now. It won’t be long before we see a post from your wife about you leaving her for your “friend.”
Having a neutral conversation with your friend is not betrayal.
Displaying an interest in his friend is betrayal though.