If she believes in non-monogamous relationships then she needs to find a partner that also believes in that too because you do and that means y'all are incompatible. That has nothing to do with masculinity and you need to question if you really truly want to stay in s relationship with someone who dismisses and invalidates your feelings. Attaching your masculinity was the equivalent to “its just your period” comments men use to invalidate women when they advocate for themselves.
I know how bad what I did was. Believe me, I hate myself right now. I just think the right thing to do would be not to share private information with others, not that I don't see why she's doing it.
You'd be surprised how often people stop of emotional intimacy or just making out because on their head/relationship it doesn't cross the boundary of cheating.
You have to remember that for a lot of cheaters it's not about just but about emotional validation, there are an awful lot of people with very poor self esteem out there.
It's doesn't have to be like a final yes/no question.
You could ask just to open up the convo and see if she's ever thought about it.
Questions like: “hey. Sometimes I think that living together might be nice. Do you ever imagine or think about living together? This is what I would enjoy about it (XYZ).
What would that look like for you? What do you need/want from a romantic housemate/cohabiting partner?”
It sounds like you’re an artist – message me if you’re comfortable?
Exactly, so you need to stop
Never go back to something that broke you. Even better every car should have a single owner, not two.
If she believes in non-monogamous relationships then she needs to find a partner that also believes in that too because you do and that means y'all are incompatible. That has nothing to do with masculinity and you need to question if you really truly want to stay in s relationship with someone who dismisses and invalidates your feelings. Attaching your masculinity was the equivalent to “its just your period” comments men use to invalidate women when they advocate for themselves.
I know how bad what I did was. Believe me, I hate myself right now. I just think the right thing to do would be not to share private information with others, not that I don't see why she's doing it.
You'd be surprised how often people stop of emotional intimacy or just making out because on their head/relationship it doesn't cross the boundary of cheating.
You have to remember that for a lot of cheaters it's not about just but about emotional validation, there are an awful lot of people with very poor self esteem out there.
I said it like a week in. Still going strong six years later. Hell we moved in together after like two months?
Life is too short to hold those feelings in.
Betrayal can never be forgiven nor forgotten.
Puts on Nerd Glasses
Well, actually…
Pepper Potts is known for dating Happy Hogan in the comics.
It's doesn't have to be like a final yes/no question.
You could ask just to open up the convo and see if she's ever thought about it.
Questions like: “hey. Sometimes I think that living together might be nice. Do you ever imagine or think about living together? This is what I would enjoy about it (XYZ).
What would that look like for you? What do you need/want from a romantic housemate/cohabiting partner?”