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Your friends talk like the altar is the goal and then it's all easy. But it's just a step in the relationship.
Read over your post again OP. How could you accept that for yourself?
Imagine someone acting this way with your daughter. Would you think the relationship is worth saving?
She is right to be upset about him sleeping at a girls house be honest.
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Most professional male boudoir photographers that I know have a female assistant there at all times. I don't necessarily think your wife is cheating, but I do suspect this guy is not the professional your wife wants him to be. There are a lot of great male boudoir photographers out there, but there are also a lot of creeps. Maybe setting up a shoot for her, or for both of you, with a real professional would be something she would enjoy, and maybe open her eyes to the creepiness of this guy? Just an idea.
That is not that long at all and the damage is done. You realized you liked someone, instead of distancing yourself from her you decided to tell her. Then when she told you she felt the same you decided to continue constant contact. This is emotional cheating and cheating in general.
You may break up with him due to other reasons but you cheated on him and continued for a long time, I see why he is suspicious and doesn't trust you anymore.
I've actually been thinking about this, and I want to give you this example, because even if you do not stay in this relationship, you may find it pertinent in the future. Apologies that I'm using something as contentious as grades, it's just easy to demonstrate what I mean, I don't have kids and I don't think one way or another about the grading system.
So imagine you have a child, and you tell the child that all you ask from them is to do their best. For a long time, the child gets straight A's. Around middle school, he starts playing a lot of video games, skipping assignments, staying up too late, not seeing his real life friends, and his grades start to slip down to C's. You reassure him that he just needs to do his best and you'll be happy. Despite this, he still continues the problem behavior and still gets C's. You start getting angry: you know his best is straight A's, and you know that if he knocked off the video games, he'd be able to achieve that again. So you start getting on his ass about his video games, sleep schedule, and grades out of frustration.
Meanwhile, from his point of view, he is doing his best. His best is just different now, because he is processing a lot. It feels like the unconditional acceptance was a lie. If you really wanted him to do his best, he thinks, you would not point out the symptoms — the sleep issues, the avoiding homework, the lack of studying, the isolation. The symptoms would worry you and his inability to achieve would worry you. You would approach the symptoms with compassion to get to the root cause, and say, hey, so I need you to meet me halfway and do your best to address that even if it means therapy or family counseling. Don't worry about the other stuff right now. This part is going to be tough.
Of course, you don't owe this to a romantic partner like you would to a child. But if this is patterned for you and you continue to end up with people who are caught in a cycle, approaching support from this angle may prevent escalation and help you grow together.
How can you be a FWB with someone for 6 years and not know they have a girlfriend.
I don’t know because I see both sides to this. On one hand, how do you not notice? If I was dating someone and some girl had her hand on his thigh and he didn’t notice I would be like WTF how do you not notice???
But at the same time I’ve drunkenly fell down a flight of stairs and felt zero pain, very light discomfort. And I could see while intoxicated and engaged in a conversation how light, normalized touch could be unregistered.
Oh ffs. She’s a mum that doesn’t want to crush her sons spirit. How you doing on that?? Everyone needs achievable goals. She’s giving him achievable goals, you aren’t. And you are too rigid in your thinking to realise it.
Thank you, that’s given me a lot to think about.
Oh dude. Yeah, you super messed up and are 100% in the wrong.
You don't deserve any “credit” for not having sex with other people for 4 months. FFS.
You agreed to the long distance relationship, you could have broken up with her until she got her visa situation figured out, instead you strung her along, lied to her, and the had sex with some random woman, didn't tell your girlfriend about the cheating for a few weeks. How do you think your somehow not the bad guy in this situation.
Try to learn to be a better person before you start dating other people.
Couple things.. your self esteem and worth can not be tied to another person, period. That’s defeating the purpose. That’s a journey you have to sort out on your own, unfortunately. There is no one way to do it, what worked for me doesn’t work for someone else. Do some research, some introspection, etc.. in a few years it may finally come together for you.
Setting that aside, if you require constant validation and words or affirmation, being with someone who does not meet that need is not ideal now is it. Doesn’t mean either of you is wrong, doing that doesn’t come naturally to a lot of people. Your options are let it go, or seek out someone who can fulfill that.
Like their age gap is older than his kids…..
End things with him.
It is what is the best thing for you.
In your scenario specifically, will opening up the relationship ruin it? Yes.
For an open relationship to work, both of you need to be in a healthy, secure place (no insecurities). Both of you need to be fully on board (enthusiastic agreement/consent). You both need to fully trust each other. Even then, it can be challenging to navigate.
And in your situation? You were hesitant saying yes. The situation is already making you anxious. You *both* have trust issues. You admit you are insecure & have abandonment issues.
If you want your relationship to survive, the answer is not to open it up, that will only ruin it.
You two need to sit down & have a deep heart to heart. For both of you, you need to honestly assess where you are both at & what your priorities are. Work out how much time & energy you have to invest in those priorities. You say you have a lot of responsibility, is there anything you can let go of to make more time for your relationship? If not… then maybe the relationship is what you need to let go of.
Idle mind is a Devil's workshop, so keep being busy in anything but porn, the more you think about this, the more you'll feel compelled to give in