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It came back a couple of months ago and I was not happy about it at all. I was with someone at the time and that made things so much worse. We were kissing. I was fine with that. But then he grabbed my thigh and the way he did it triggered tf out of me.
Next thing I know he's trying to calm me down and I'm screaming at him to stop trying to touch me or I'm going to murder him. I was shaking, I was sick, I was hyperventilating. I puked. I curled up in the fetal position on the floor and sobbed until I fell asleep. It was not pretty.
I have severe issues with being touched, with my body, with anyone being attracted to me, with men in general. I have a lot of trauma. I cry when I get turned on, or I go numb bc that's what I'm used to. So like my body may be feeling one way but my mind just totally checks out.
I never realized how bad it was until that happened. I had locked that relationship away in my mind and just shut myself down so I could live! with it. Now I have to confront it and deal with it. I have a therapist appt in a couple of weeks.
People really don't realize how much forcing someone to have sex, through coersion or otherwise, can really ruin someone.
Did he know he was sexually coercing her at the time?
Maybe you should ask your son why he doesn't want to on-line there?
He could just not want to listen to the baby cry at night….
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Are you fit? A lot of people are going to suggest counseling and it has its place. But I'm going to suggest something different.
1) You need to stop doing things for her and start doing it for you. 2) You need to act like the relationship is going to end
Immediately you're going to stop being the instigator or asking. Continue to be friendly, lovingly, but kisses, keep them friendly, you're going to communicate you've checked out. You're going to hit the gym and rip it hot, focus on you. The gym is important because it changes your hormones and pheromones things she'll pick up subconsciously.
I guarantee after a solid month and a half she'll start to get curious, brush her off and be blunt “listen we don't have an intimate relationship, you don't put any effort into carrying on one with me or working with me, I don't have any expectations, but I'm not putting myself out there for you. I work nude to father our child, I work nude at work, and I didn't forge a marital bond for it to be plutonic. If that's what you want we can do that, but I'm fit, smart, and sexy, I have an infinite time to be dead, and a very short life to enjoy – so enjoy it with me, talk to me and we can figure this out, if not it's been fun.”
She might have serious reasons as to why she's not interested and they may be perfectly valid, but if she can't at least communicate them then you decide what relationship you want.
A happy ending then.
Not even counting the choice to cheat she made 7,300 choices before she chose to tell the truth. If that isn't a core part of who a person is I don't know what is. If someone lied to your face about core facts that you based your life on 7,300 in a row would you ever trust them again?