If he's not paying for OF, then there is no interaction. So effectively, it is the same as any other porn.
You don't say what the views or agreements are on porn. So I'm assuming that you don't have one in the relationship. My view is that there is no harm in porn. Unless it impacts the relationship. By this, I mean he prefers porn to have sex with you. Or his porn usage makes him physically unable to perform with you.
Many couples use porn as a sex aid/toy to enhance their sexlife. I think the use of porn can be completely independent of your relationship. Looking at models does not make him love you or want you any less than what he did before. The reality is that he is never “getting” with one of those girls. It's all a fantasy. If you are insecure about your weight gain, that's on you. He can tell you how much he loves and desires you, but if you don't believe him, there is nothing else he can do. You control your body. If you don't like your body, change it. If you fo like it, and he has said he likes it, why don't you believe him?
I think you need to have a big talk about this with him.
Not while they currently feel that way.
His feelings may change in the future but for now he’s only compatible with people who are also not interested in cohabitation.
Did you go back to your girlfriend and admit you were wrong? Or are you only interested in telling people they are wrong?
That is awful!! I’m so sorry. Leave this guy!! I promise- this isn’t normal and it isn’t acceptable.
You have been getting answers problem is you don't like the answers. You should postpone the wedding until your fiancée gets help. She has some serious problems and from the sound of so does her mother and sister. If you really love her then get her help
Can you be single?
If he's not paying for OF, then there is no interaction. So effectively, it is the same as any other porn.
You don't say what the views or agreements are on porn. So I'm assuming that you don't have one in the relationship. My view is that there is no harm in porn. Unless it impacts the relationship. By this, I mean he prefers porn to have sex with you. Or his porn usage makes him physically unable to perform with you.
Many couples use porn as a sex aid/toy to enhance their sexlife. I think the use of porn can be completely independent of your relationship. Looking at models does not make him love you or want you any less than what he did before. The reality is that he is never “getting” with one of those girls. It's all a fantasy. If you are insecure about your weight gain, that's on you. He can tell you how much he loves and desires you, but if you don't believe him, there is nothing else he can do. You control your body. If you don't like your body, change it. If you fo like it, and he has said he likes it, why don't you believe him?
I think you need to have a big talk about this with him.
Good luck
She is not your friend. She is jealous of you because of your weight loss and advancement in your career.
I cut my friend off after I dropped a lot of weight. She told me I was still fat and my clothes didn’t fit me.
My clothes were actually loose because I lost weight so rapidly I hadn’t changed my entire wardrobe over.
The better I started looking and the happier I became – the more miserable she became.
This isn’t about you medication – it’s about your friends hatred of you.
You need to stop hanging around her.