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1. He likely will, but also – don't expect it or wait for it!

   The best advice I can give you about this potentially happening, is to ignore him. MUCH easier said than done for sure, but months or years down the road, you'll thank yourself for not engaging or listening to his reasoning/excuses. Because at the end of the day, it's not going to make you feel better about things, and it's likely you'll spiral back into the feelings of worthlessness again 🙁 It'll be hot to not want to know what the hell happened, but it really, really doesn't matter and future you will understand that.

   My ex wife did something similar-ish. Together 14 years, married 7. One day she announced she wanted a divorce, and I didn't see it coming AT ALL. She didn't tell me why in that moment (we were also sitting on the couch, just watching TV, like you!). And she just walked away. Left the house entirely the next day.

   We didn't talk about things for weeks, and even when we did, I barely got answers, and certainly no closure. She had met somebody live, who lived in a different country, and had carried on with him for close to two years. I had NO idea AT ALL. She moved there eventually, and I really never got any closure from her.

   And you know what? I'm glad I didn't. She did what she did, I really didn't need to know all the details, and I'm glad I don't. She made the decision to do this, so be it.

   Closure is important in most cases, but often the attempt to get closure doesn't work out in your favor, and it makes you feel worse about things.

   The bottom line in my case was that my ex wife met someone she felt more of a connection to, and that's it, that's all. No need to know exactly WHY.

   Same with your ex boyfriend. Something else took precedence over you and the relationship. Knowing exactly what that is won't make you feel better about yourself, and it may make you feel worse, and for longer.

   In retrospect, many years later, I'm glad my ex wife just ripped off the bandaid. It was a horrible time for me, but I honestly got over it relatively quickly because there wasn't anything I could do about it, nor did I know all the details that would have just made me feel awful about myself for a whole lot longer.

   I highly suggest you just ignore it if and when he reaches out to try to “explain”, as very hot as that may be. At the end of the day, it'd be HIS conscience making him do that, it's not for YOUR benefit, even though your heart will tell you it is. It's for HIS benefit, wanting to explain. So pull the reverse UNO card and don't allow him to. Let him think he's not worth your time (which he isn't TBH) and he'll stew for a little bit. Block him and move on. Even if he has an excuse and an explanation, it will not make you feel better, nor will any sort of apology from him. Don't allow him to make himself feel better by trying to explain things – none of that is for YOU, it's all for him, to make himself feel okay with what he did.

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2. Every business owner knows that for at least the first year you will not make a profit, you will actually lose money.

   Usually you can't call a business successful until after 5 years

   Him wanting to quit his established paying job to start up a business is crazy.

   I would straight up tell him your household will not suffer financially for this business. If he can't carry his weight financially then things are going to change.

   I personally would have a legal contract made up stating that you have no responsibility financially or otherwise for this business to protect yourself.

   And look forward to struggling, because this economy is tanking and things are getting more expensive, and being down to one income is going to suck and cause trouble.

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3. This is the way.

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4. Incorrect.

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5. So you're in an open relationship, and she just didn't tell you but recorded evidence of it for her personal use? Sounds about right.

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6. I did read this section, and I don't want to read everything because it hurts. But you know, you've been very helpful. I've been struggling with this for about a month

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7. I don't think he's blaming her but if I walked down a dark alley and got mugged it's obviously not my fault I got mugged but I didn't help myself by going down the alley in the first place

   If she's gonna flirt then guys are gonna reciprocate

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