It would probably feel better to have him say “because she's so fun to be with” or “because she's so smart” or “because she's so nice” or something like that, but I think what he's saying actually is something positive about you. It probably means that you're more tolerant of certain things or are more committed to your relationship or are better able to understand whatever he does to push people away and not let it affect you. So I think that is part of who you are.
It also doesn't mean that there aren't plenty of other things he likes about you. I think it might be more that he's aware of things that he does that often drive women away and is very happy that you're unique in that you're capable of dealing with whatever those are.
As long as he treats you well and you're happy being with him, I wouldn't worry about the way he described that. Maybe it would seem more positive to you if he said “because she's so patient” or “because she's so tolerant” or something like that, but I think the way he said it is more that he's pointing out that he knows he has flaws than it is that he doesn't appreciate the good things about you.
“Despite the prominence of the RST in the field, no quantitative analysis of gender differences in depressive rumination has been conducted in the adult literature.”
Not only is that source only about depression, even it says that its not about gender differences.
Missing the kiss is no big deal. Just make sure to go for it next time (if there is one).
Give it a few days (3-4), enough time for her to start wondering a little…
And this time, ask her to something a little more than just dinner (music, mini-golf, zoo, etc. + a meal). Something fun that you can do together. You don't want another dinner date where you have to keep making conversation the whole time.
Your goal is to have fun together. If she has fun when she is with you, her interest will continue to grow.
Then it wouldn’t be built on a lie… you guys don’t need to discuss those two weeks. They aren’t relevant and will most likely just hurt feelings. And that’s okay to say.
What’s the difference between you changing your last name just to change it again.. I think to just stick to your ex husband last name until you get married to your boyfriend that’s if he stops acting like it’s a issue.. you’ll just waste money and your time to change your former last name.
Of course, I have watched questionable shit, as well as read. And if she does that's cool it's not like ill see her watching porn and immediately think differently of her that's stupid.
Tell him the truth
This is all.i ever wanted but at 36 and woth no fam. ?♂️ all I can say if you are lucky.
Sorry, but they have a thing going and you are now second fiddle to him.
It would probably feel better to have him say “because she's so fun to be with” or “because she's so smart” or “because she's so nice” or something like that, but I think what he's saying actually is something positive about you. It probably means that you're more tolerant of certain things or are more committed to your relationship or are better able to understand whatever he does to push people away and not let it affect you. So I think that is part of who you are.
It also doesn't mean that there aren't plenty of other things he likes about you. I think it might be more that he's aware of things that he does that often drive women away and is very happy that you're unique in that you're capable of dealing with whatever those are.
As long as he treats you well and you're happy being with him, I wouldn't worry about the way he described that. Maybe it would seem more positive to you if he said “because she's so patient” or “because she's so tolerant” or something like that, but I think the way he said it is more that he's pointing out that he knows he has flaws than it is that he doesn't appreciate the good things about you.
You're a cheat and this gave me secondhand embarrassment.
“Despite the prominence of the RST in the field, no quantitative analysis of gender differences in depressive rumination has been conducted in the adult literature.”
Not only is that source only about depression, even it says that its not about gender differences.
Any suggestions on how to let them both down without causing too much hurt?
Missing the kiss is no big deal. Just make sure to go for it next time (if there is one).
Give it a few days (3-4), enough time for her to start wondering a little…
And this time, ask her to something a little more than just dinner (music, mini-golf, zoo, etc. + a meal). Something fun that you can do together. You don't want another dinner date where you have to keep making conversation the whole time.
Your goal is to have fun together. If she has fun when she is with you, her interest will continue to grow.
Then it wouldn’t be built on a lie… you guys don’t need to discuss those two weeks. They aren’t relevant and will most likely just hurt feelings. And that’s okay to say.
Swg so many grown ass people are out here just immature as hell. Dump him
that will lead to divorce, but you do you.
What’s the difference between you changing your last name just to change it again.. I think to just stick to your ex husband last name until you get married to your boyfriend that’s if he stops acting like it’s a issue.. you’ll just waste money and your time to change your former last name.
I've said this before, but it's so fitting; she was okay with cheating on you; she was only sorry when you found out.
Of course, I have watched questionable shit, as well as read. And if she does that's cool it's not like ill see her watching porn and immediately think differently of her that's stupid.