Holy people jumping to accusations. I sympathize with your husband, I was with a girl that used to ask me questions like that all the time, they 100% come off as accusations. My life was work, home and her, she knew this so when she asked accusatory questions i got very annoyed.
You didn't ask the question without cheating in mind, if he leaves at 7 and she is there past that time then how is he to know where she has been in the house.
Thinking about the implications of questions like this is very important, not every tiny suspicion warrants an investigation, sometimes it's better to wait and see. Questions that feel like accusations and destroy a relationship very quickly.
Go ahead and separate them, and get a few u-haul boxes (or packing boxes from Home Depot) to put them in. The sooner you take action to move her out, the better. At this point, she hasn’t followed through on the promise she made to work, you’re doing the cooking and housekeeping and supporting her. She’s contributing nothing. She’s had weeks now to make other living arrangements. It’s past time, my friend, to end this situation and proceed with restoring your space, sanity and we’ll-being to a healthier level. My best wishes to you.
I love when white people act like they're the be-all, end-all authority of what it means to be a person of color.
Gee… this sounds familiar. Kind of like back in days of slavery when white people determined the “one drop rule”. Or made up such terms like “mulatto”, “quadroon”, and “octaroon”.
Good to know that in 2023 white people like you can still tell somebody who and what they are because, of course, your whiteness gives you extra special knowledge on how other people should think of themselves.
After all, what would other races think of themselves if you as an ALMIGHTY white man, didn't tell us who we are? The rest of us just wait baited breath for you to look us look us over and classify us.
(In case you're too dense to get it… what I am saying is you sound like a racist asshole.)
let her be its called natural selection my friend
Holy people jumping to accusations. I sympathize with your husband, I was with a girl that used to ask me questions like that all the time, they 100% come off as accusations. My life was work, home and her, she knew this so when she asked accusatory questions i got very annoyed.
You didn't ask the question without cheating in mind, if he leaves at 7 and she is there past that time then how is he to know where she has been in the house.
Thinking about the implications of questions like this is very important, not every tiny suspicion warrants an investigation, sometimes it's better to wait and see. Questions that feel like accusations and destroy a relationship very quickly.
Go ahead and separate them, and get a few u-haul boxes (or packing boxes from Home Depot) to put them in. The sooner you take action to move her out, the better. At this point, she hasn’t followed through on the promise she made to work, you’re doing the cooking and housekeeping and supporting her. She’s contributing nothing. She’s had weeks now to make other living arrangements. It’s past time, my friend, to end this situation and proceed with restoring your space, sanity and we’ll-being to a healthier level. My best wishes to you.
Leaning in and enjoying it… Like jerking off in the spa bathroom after???
The erection happens, the masturbating in the spa bathroom was a choice, and a bad one.
Fair
Then you dont drop the argument but explain that you are serious. Im not expert but there should be a term for this gas lighting or something else.
I love when white people act like they're the be-all, end-all authority of what it means to be a person of color.
Gee… this sounds familiar. Kind of like back in days of slavery when white people determined the “one drop rule”. Or made up such terms like “mulatto”, “quadroon”, and “octaroon”.
Good to know that in 2023 white people like you can still tell somebody who and what they are because, of course, your whiteness gives you extra special knowledge on how other people should think of themselves.
After all, what would other races think of themselves if you as an ALMIGHTY white man, didn't tell us who we are? The rest of us just wait baited breath for you to look us look us over and classify us.
(In case you're too dense to get it… what I am saying is you sound like a racist asshole.)
But i want someone i can trust and now i feel that she is not trustworthy enough Is there any way to condition her ?