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So what you’re going through is completely understandable, but I think you might have an avoidant attachment. It’s when people avoid being fully vulnerable in a relationship due to fear. And interestingly, it will always make the other partner insecure. And this is where us women usually go like “WOW SO NOW THAT I’M NOT INTERESTED HE’S INTERESTED FUCK MEN,” but really it’s just a relationship dynamic. I think you might be interested in someone who’s attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and this is something that could be due to his upbringing e.g. his caregivers were emotionally unavailable therefore he’s attracted to emotionally unavailable people — and that requires him to work on these issues with therapy, or at least debunking his beliefs on his own.
I’m not sure if you want to be in a relationship with this guy from what you’re describing him as. From what you’re describing as you being insecure it’s actually healthy to have those needs and wants in a relationship, so I think you’re actually just with the wrong partner to begin with. Lying is a huge no-no boundaries crossed that shouldn’t be accepted, and emotional safety as well as words of affirmation is a standard that should be met in a relationship.
Keep in mind that if you want to make this relationship work though, he has to be honest and put in the emotional relationship work in order for you to want to be vulnerable and committed again. He needs to be self accountable and also focus on your wants and needs to be met. Knowing where you’re at right now it’s not a fun place to be. I’m sure you wish you were in a lovey dovey relationship where you feel safe and know that your partner loves you very much, and I just hope you get that.
OP no well adjusted 25 yo will date their 19 yo employee. The power dynamics and life experience difference would prevent them from thinking this is ok.
Pull out method is just a less fun way to make babies, but believe me, there will eventually be babies.
U are a side chick. And at the very base, not someone he really cares for.
Ghost him and move on.
He's tired. Being the emotional support of someone mentally ill can be very difficult. Even more at this age.
Both of you are still young and immature, you should probably break up and get therapy, focus on healing and then everything will be okay.
Don’t you mean ex boyfriend… no way is that ok…
Updateme! for the divorce.
Sorry, I'm just starting to realize this is not super normal lol
I think it's probably more normal than you think…I know that certain sensations like that would stick with me for hours, especially when I was a kid/tween/teen, but I've never really talked about it. Certain fabrics would do that to me too.
Honestly, I can be stinky. And my friends tell me. And I appreciate it. Because I don't want to smell bad around people
Both, I suppose. But his fixation on both women is the biggest red flag I’ve ever seen. This is be careful breaking up, because he might kill you level creepy.
This. ^^
Because I just don't know if he has found my hair to smell bad? Just embarrassing for me. I'd not want my BF to think I am gross. And just embarrassed because I wasn't expecting the shampoo as I have been stressed about my hairs appearance and condition for a few weeks but havnt had the time or money to get it taken care of. I don't know it's kind of like if someone unexpectedly gives you a bar of soap as a gift.. maybe you'd be like hmm do they think I smell bad? I think it's a little bit natural to an extent. Thanks so much for your feedback I think I'm very stressed