What I forgot to say, also talk about your worries with her.
Like, the financial burden is eating me up, I don‘t know how to handle all of this and I‘m really scared.
Be open with it to her but don‘t blame it on her. Just speak from your perspective.
Try to ask her for solutions.
Something along the lines of, do you have any ideas how I can resolve this and that.
Also openly speak about your fears, coming from your perspective how stressed out you are with your anxiety about money. I know it‘s really very hot as a man to do that but it will strengthen your bond.
Just because you want to be supportive do her doesn‘t mean you shouldn‘t be open towards her. It‘s really important to know also what goes on within you.
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It sounds like there is a possibility that you are going to lose one of them using the same logic that justifies you being told. It was their fight and their decision. The likelihood you keep both is extremely small. Be prepared for that. There is also a chance you lose both, which might not be a bad thing.
I am sorry you are in this position. It is tough. My take away is getting information is the most important thing. Once you get it reflect how you should move forward on the way they presented themselves not the way you feel.
Best of luck to you two…..been with my wife for 31 years, married for 30. We were pen pals and lived together from day one after she got off the plane to come meet me. It's doable as long as you work at it.
He’s not wrong, my wife is like that. Sex relieves her stress
What I forgot to say, also talk about your worries with her.
Like, the financial burden is eating me up, I don‘t know how to handle all of this and I‘m really scared.
Be open with it to her but don‘t blame it on her. Just speak from your perspective.
Try to ask her for solutions.
Something along the lines of, do you have any ideas how I can resolve this and that.
Also openly speak about your fears, coming from your perspective how stressed out you are with your anxiety about money. I know it‘s really very hot as a man to do that but it will strengthen your bond.
Just because you want to be supportive do her doesn‘t mean you shouldn‘t be open towards her. It‘s really important to know also what goes on within you.
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Please tell someone, hun.
Someone you know will listen, let you take the lead, and not fly off the handle.
Oh no I’m not going to a church group lol
valuable collectibles > predatory woman who couldn't find someone someone her own age to date
Drop the woman and don't look back. Keep your stuff.
i dont want to lose my girlfriend
that's what you say today, later on you'll thank yourself
The best advice I can give is realize your fiancé is the best chance of information. Create an environment that is open for him to talk.
It sounds like there is a possibility that you are going to lose one of them using the same logic that justifies you being told. It was their fight and their decision. The likelihood you keep both is extremely small. Be prepared for that. There is also a chance you lose both, which might not be a bad thing.
I am sorry you are in this position. It is tough. My take away is getting information is the most important thing. Once you get it reflect how you should move forward on the way they presented themselves not the way you feel.
Best of luck to you two…..been with my wife for 31 years, married for 30. We were pen pals and lived together from day one after she got off the plane to come meet me. It's doable as long as you work at it.