Your GF ostensibly has a mirror and a scale. She knows she’s gained weight.
If it’s a problem for you, end things. You don’t tell someone “lose weight or I’m ending things”. Just…leave if it bothers you.
If it doesn’t bother you enough to leave then start contributing to a healthier situation. Plan and cook healthier meals when you’re together. Plan dates that are more active like a hike. Take walks together after dinner or something.
Telling her she’s putting on weight isn’t going to help anything.
Dont get me wrong I think its kinda stupid, but alot of comedy is stolen comedy, and its either done a different way, or whatever. Fact is, he was probably nervous, and when you called him out and said “Tell me a joke.” ? he went with the first thing he could think of lol. OP it is 100% your decision what you do, but if you had a fun time and this was your only negative, in my opinion give him a second chance. If not ill still respect you either way lol
It a man talked to a woman the way you spoke to OP would you find it acceptable?
Be better.
t Yes, I think the best thing is that I take some time to think things over better. Thanks for the advice
Ain’t no hate like Christian love, bigots have no place in peoples lives.
Your GF ostensibly has a mirror and a scale. She knows she’s gained weight.
If it’s a problem for you, end things. You don’t tell someone “lose weight or I’m ending things”. Just…leave if it bothers you.
If it doesn’t bother you enough to leave then start contributing to a healthier situation. Plan and cook healthier meals when you’re together. Plan dates that are more active like a hike. Take walks together after dinner or something.
Telling her she’s putting on weight isn’t going to help anything.
Glad you had this happen before marriage. While very naked, you’re doing the right thing.
I’m dating him is that bad
Leave. This is not someone who is mature enough to date.
r/LDR
Dont get me wrong I think its kinda stupid, but alot of comedy is stolen comedy, and its either done a different way, or whatever. Fact is, he was probably nervous, and when you called him out and said “Tell me a joke.” ? he went with the first thing he could think of lol. OP it is 100% your decision what you do, but if you had a fun time and this was your only negative, in my opinion give him a second chance. If not ill still respect you either way lol
Get in the ring and punch her into next week.