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any reason is enough. If you just don't feel like it – that's enough.
He knows you and can have a fling with you but doesn't want to date you again.
From their perspective they can't do better than you bc you're the best thing they're going to find. There is no “better than you.” There's just you.
I'm glad you found someone who makes you want to do your best. Just remember that even when you're not at your best, he still loves you. You're only human.
which is an entirely irrelevant comment to the thread, given that he never said any such thingâŚ.so not sure why u felt it was relevant
Love is respect and trust, not calling names (dumb) nor negging you. You can try talking to him.
Jokes are only funny if you find them funny. You are young and learning.
I'm not going to tell you to drop the bf, but you should talk with him and consider if he's doing more good than bad on your life.
Do you like being bullied by the person that is supposed to love you?
What a sick fuck. Leave.
Oh honey, this is abusive as hell. He is manipulating you by wearing down your self-esteem so that you feel less comfortable challenging him and are too afraid to leave him. You do not deserve this. You are better than this. Throw the whole man away.
Clearly she doesnât trust the situation. Like I dunno ?ââď¸
He canât change her or anything. He is only in control of himself.
Please come back in a year and give us an update.
We have full shared to do lists and calendars but good suggestion, thanks!
That's exactly what I've been doing:
My blood pressure was borderline high even when I was skinny, and unsurprisingly it went up as I got fat. I'm now on three medications for it, but I take them religiously (have literally never missed a dose).
My cholesterol is slightly elevated but not high enough to need medication.
My blood sugar was okay the last time it was checked.
I've developed very severe sleep apnea, but I took it seriously, got a CPAP machine, and wear it every single night without fail.
Honestly I feel like admitting that I've developed some health problems as a result of this is just going to make you judge me more. I really hope you don't do that.
The only way for her to change is if she wants to, if she sees the value in change. What does she value? It seems like she doesn't value your happiness or respect or fairness with chores, OR she doesn't notice those things. If you packed up and left tonight would she notice, would she miss you, would she feel any blame or desire to be better? “Love” in your sense is wanting what's best for her and wanting her friendship, does she love you back? Now you don't want to just threaten leaving yet, but you need to start talking about how things feel unfair, that you are stressed out and overloaded, that isn't a partnership. Right now it's just a casual “hey I need help with this”, she says “sure” because that's an easy answer, then you eventually do it anyways so she can keep getting away with that. She has no reason to change, her life is easy and you keep loving her and doing everything. She either doesn't notice you're unhappy or she doesn't care, really think about that and pay attention to that. Tomorrow never comes so it's always easy to promise something tomorrow. Give her a reason to change. Promises aren't action, and neither is your quiet resentment. Let her know that you want to be with her, but you need to see action happening and start feeling like it's a partnership instead of just roommates pushing duties onto each other. Put this change into perspective for the relationship either dying or blooming into something better. When she realizes how bad it is for you see if she really wants to change, or if she's just being lazy and saying what you want to hear.
Now you also have things to work on. You are enabling her behavior because you are nervous of losing her/upsetting her/offending her/depressing her. Those are all important things to be careful of but you are making yourself a mess by avoiding any tough progressive conversations with her. Can't move forward without the mutual hot realization of where things are right now. You both have pushed the relationship into this spot where you do everything and the only resistance she has is the casual ask for help which doesn't matter if she follows through or not. Stand up for yourself and hold her more accountable for what she says. You think she is depressed, talk to her about that. Maybe depression is making her avoid change, but she should be able to talk about that if it's true. Has she always been this way? Depressed or not she should be more true to her word, addressing that might get her to open up about anything that is bothering her. Maybe she's lazy and “I'll do it tomorrow” just means 'whatever, you'll do it, fuck you'. Maybe “I'll do it tomorrow” is some kind of avoidance thing if she is deep in anxiety or depression. Get her to talk about why she never does what she says she'll do, and get her to talk about what she needs.
Then Iâm sorry to say my answer stands. It shouldnât be work just a few months in.
Okay, I wasnât sure if you did based on your comment. Thank you.
I mean you are saying that assuming the system needs or even should be this way. We are the only country in the world that has commoditized higher education to the extent where it literally costs a fortune. We are also one of the developed countries with the highest wage gap between people who hold a college degree, and those who do not. Factor in the fact that much of our k-12 education system is explicitly designed as a pipeline for college education, and that the narrative until only very recently was that you needed a degree to be worth anything – you can start to see there are a lot of pressures building on someone to take on this type of debt.
And that doesnât even account for the fact that our student loan system is predatory to the core – âsubsidizedâ interest rates in FEDERAL LOANS that now homeowner, business owner, or any other sane loan taker would ever accept.
So I donât think itâs a simple as saying âwell you shouldâve thought about that ?ââď¸â. We have built an economy that is pay to play, and that decision was made long before any of us had a say in it.
Heâs hoping to just wear you down, you will just have to just stop talking to him, i kniw itâs fun but next time he asks â thatâs it, Iâve told you no multiple times, we are done talking completely â
35 here! Itâs our go to. We are obsessed with itâs always sunny in Philadelphia and we decided to run through Seinfeld again and holy cow they are so similar! Not as in a copying type of way but inspiration. It was amazing.
So he remembered to book a hotel room with another person but not to get you a ticket? Yeah no
It's good he already sees it's an issue. As a guy let me advise. We're fucking retarded. If this is a deal breaker just say it to him. Tell him it bothers you. If he's as into you as you are him he'll fix it. Don't sugar coat it but don't be rude in telling him it's an issue.
Advice about what?