The marriage is over man, sorry to say it. The trust will never be there again. But the silver lining is you learned who she really is early on before kids were brought into the mix. End it and move on.
If you hang on for years after you will just delay your own happiness for when you find someone who you can put your trust in and build a happy life from there. Best of luck man, I know this must be incredibly painful for you
Thanks for the advice. He can’t visit right now because he doesn’t have a visa and he’s working on his masters degree. He’s met my friends and family over video chat, but only briefly.
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I don't mean this to be rude, but you should have more to fill your day besides waiting for his text messages
The marriage is over man, sorry to say it. The trust will never be there again. But the silver lining is you learned who she really is early on before kids were brought into the mix. End it and move on.
If you hang on for years after you will just delay your own happiness for when you find someone who you can put your trust in and build a happy life from there. Best of luck man, I know this must be incredibly painful for you
He sounds incredibly immature and self-centered. He also sounds like he's trying to control you.
Is this really how you want to be treated by the person who is supposed to love you?
Thanks for the advice. He can’t visit right now because he doesn’t have a visa and he’s working on his masters degree. He’s met my friends and family over video chat, but only briefly.
Cheers appreciate it