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  1. My boyfriend does the same thing to me. Except, I've known my boyfriend since highschool, now for a total of 7 years, and we started off as friends who allegedly had just a platonic relationship.

    Your boyfriend is comfortable and knows that he likes you, but he's not comfortable enough to give you a cheesey nickname so he's resorting to calling you broski, dude, bro, fam, and so on. Specifically, guys who use those nicknames generally imply that there's respect in the relation to who they're giving that nickname too. Sure, every guy can be a bro, but not all bros are homies, like you are to him.

    It's been 1.5 months. Give him some time to ease into changing the nicknames. He might even be thinking of something unique to call you other than generic common names like baby, love, honey, so on.

    My boyfriend and I are the same age as your boyfriend. Lemme tell you, my boyfriend likes to kiss my forehead after we do the deed to let me know that it was an intimate moment meant to be romantic, but within seconds he'll literally dap me up and go “Ayo gg bro, let's do it again later.” It's a little off putting, but I know he does it for the jokes.

    When I met my boyfriend in highschool, he referred to me as my first or last names. But eventually he gave me a nickname that nobody else used until after we broke up in 10th grade, and then gave me a new one after we got back together.

    If he's the one true love, he'll maybe want to make things memorable as possible for you, which includes strange behaviours like this. Generally speaking, guys who show the quirky side of themselves are showing that they're letting their guard down around you because he trusts you. If he trusts you, he'll do dumb things that you can literally use against him, but he trusts that you wouldn't. You're dear to him in a sense.

    Your boyfriend will ease up to give you a nickname, if not a common one until he can. You could try hinting at him by giving him names that aren't pet names.. like call him Stinky and see how he reacts, then give him a big whiff and tell him that you think he's stinky in a good way. Tease him and let him tease you back to see how far the nicknames can get.

    Remember, this is your boyfriend's way of endearment towards you. He sees you as his girlfriend, but also someone close enough to be trusted like a homie.

    I think that's one of the sweetest and purest relationships to have is when a boyfriend can treat his girlfriend like they're bestfriends instead of applying patriarchal approaches in the relationship (like women should have women friends and not be included in the men's hobbies, and women shouldn't be friends with men they should only be girlfriends/trophies to show off, etc.) Don't let the names ruin the relationship for you 🙂 You'll be okay. But definitely do talk about it if it does really bother you.

  2. Your boyfriend had a rant. He let off some steam. He did not cheat.

    You are abusive and need to work on yourself leaving this poor man alone to recover form your repetitive abusive behaviour.

  3. You should both have a conversation on what you’re both comfortable with and if you aren’t comfortable you may need to slowly start backing out. I’m not saying dump him but do acknowledge that this little human is beginning to formulate the world she knows around her and right now she may only see women as momma and men as dads but it is important to her. I also just realized you both have a 14 year age gap. Take things slow. You both talk about how you want to move forward and how to correct her gently if need be.

  4. You need to know your self worth!

    Your ex broke you and it takes time to recover, put your guard down and feel love again. But to do that, you have to love and respect yourself in a healthy way!

  5. But you see…she has no point. Pictures were for her, private and intimate. Not to show them to her girlfriends. Who does that? I would never show nudes of my boyfriend to my friends because I respect him and he's mine.I wouldn't want anyone to see him very hot.

  6. Personally I view calling someone attractive means that you yourself are also attracted to the person in a way, but calling them good looking and only good looking is saying that they are conventionally attractive. I think a lot of women are good looking but I wouldn’t say I find them attractive because I’m only truly attracted to the person that I’m dating. Just my view

  7. I’m sorry so many people on here are being so cruel. My love, you are going to do something amazing for your child, and your grandchildren, and your great grandchildren. You are going to be a cycle breaker. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it. Get therapy. Give your child the childhood you wish you had.

    You are strong enough. Look your beautiful, perfect baby in the face and remind yourself you are strong enough.

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