Well, having adult responsibilities is understandable. However you should work to live, not the other way around (unless you both think otherwise of course).
You should be honest with your feelings, and needs with him. Perhaps can both of you temporarily reduce your focus on your jobs, to spend some quality time together?
This is vital for a long term relationship to find proper time for each other, even if it must come at the expense of other things. Without it relationship will erode, and whatever you may achieve spending time on other things will not bring love back to your Relationship once it dies out.
Tell him to bring it. Just not to your house. He has a reputation for a reason. If he doesn't want women shit talk8ng him maybe he should stop doing what causes it.
He has no suit if said women are telling the truth.
I was gonna say, you could argue that in Gatsby, the woman's husband (was her name Daisy? It's been years.), Tom, was a total monster.
Its always where youd least expect it, aye?
How do we suck
But… you DO want to spend less time with him.
Tell him professors profit off of studying marginalized groups and make their research/books inaccessible to those groups
I studied anthropology and sociology (loved it) but always had that thought in the back of my mind
What. The. Fuck.
Well, having adult responsibilities is understandable. However you should work to live, not the other way around (unless you both think otherwise of course).
You should be honest with your feelings, and needs with him. Perhaps can both of you temporarily reduce your focus on your jobs, to spend some quality time together?
This is vital for a long term relationship to find proper time for each other, even if it must come at the expense of other things. Without it relationship will erode, and whatever you may achieve spending time on other things will not bring love back to your Relationship once it dies out.
This also what you should convey to your partner.
Truth is 100% defense.
Tell him to bring it. Just not to your house. He has a reputation for a reason. If he doesn't want women shit talk8ng him maybe he should stop doing what causes it.
He has no suit if said women are telling the truth.