You don't have to care about triggering him. He either does this for you or the relationship ends. Whether today or in a few years, doesn't matter. You need to just give him that ultimatum.
I sit with my husband and tell him id bang almost every attractive celebrity that comes across our screen, if i got the chance.
He wishes me luck, and says “same”.
If you cant even talk about your interests in a relationship, or god forbid JOKE about finding a celebrity attractive, your relationship is doomed.
Your boyfriend is insecure and immature and has a lot of growing up to do before he can be in a serious relationship. For the love of god, dont be his training wheels.
Men literally get upset with women for not wanting sex all the time…. Hell, a guy buys a drink for a woman he just met and gets pissed if she doesn’t want to put out. And they get plenty of empathy and excuses made for them – this has kind of been an accepted widespread male behavior for a long time. This isn’t an “if the genders were reversed” situation.
I love how he said he messaged her to feel confident. You cheated on your GF with a sex worker who was a guaranteed lay, there is no confidence to be had. Only shame. Because he’s a fucking joke
You don't have to care about triggering him. He either does this for you or the relationship ends. Whether today or in a few years, doesn't matter. You need to just give him that ultimatum.
Lmao
what was the method you used to deal with this during therapy ? what helped you before?
I sit with my husband and tell him id bang almost every attractive celebrity that comes across our screen, if i got the chance.
He wishes me luck, and says “same”.
If you cant even talk about your interests in a relationship, or god forbid JOKE about finding a celebrity attractive, your relationship is doomed.
Your boyfriend is insecure and immature and has a lot of growing up to do before he can be in a serious relationship. For the love of god, dont be his training wheels.
You have only been together 2 months, and already, he seems like more trouble than he's worth. Just move on.
Men literally get upset with women for not wanting sex all the time…. Hell, a guy buys a drink for a woman he just met and gets pissed if she doesn’t want to put out. And they get plenty of empathy and excuses made for them – this has kind of been an accepted widespread male behavior for a long time. This isn’t an “if the genders were reversed” situation.
I love how he said he messaged her to feel confident. You cheated on your GF with a sex worker who was a guaranteed lay, there is no confidence to be had. Only shame. Because he’s a fucking joke