I'm just here to say that I know two people (as far as I know) who have it. They both are in long term, committed relationships (not with the jerks who gave it to them). One is in her 50s and the other in her 20s.
Point is, it's not a deal breaker to people, or even for those in casual relationships, as long as all involved are responsible, respectful, and armed with knowledge. You're not stuck and unlovable because of it. Thought I'd put that out there just in case.
Your girlfriend leaves a lot to be desired in those areas. I do hope you get an apology and she sees how terrible what she did is. It is a massive violation of your trust, but also your body.
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I’m in my 40s and a hardcore introvert. People can be exhausting for me but I push through it and always try to be polite and gracious towards others because that’s what you do as a grown ass adult.
“His distaste for stupid people” makes my eyes roll into the back of my head. This man is 40 and sounds like an edgelord teenager. He’s not going to change, at this age people are pretty plastic. You’ve been with this dude since you were 19 but you have so much more life to on-line without this wet towel dragging you down. How is he making your life better?
Sex is generally a very important part of a relationship IMO. And realistically you have zero experience pleasing her sexually and I’m assuming she realized that and noticed her mistake. She should have been upfront with you from the beginning instead of leading you on until MARRIAGE. But hey, you live! and you learn. That’s the risk you take deciding to save yourself for marriage. It never works. Maybe don’t do that next time.
But you choose to date her knowing how she dresses. If it’s an issue for you date someone who doesn’t dress like that.
I dated this guy who wrote those long t-shirts. I didn’t like it but I knew going in that he would be wearing something that to me looked stupid.
No, it’s not exactly the same as wearing revealing clothing but my point is accept people as is if you are going to date them, or move on.
I'm just here to say that I know two people (as far as I know) who have it. They both are in long term, committed relationships (not with the jerks who gave it to them). One is in her 50s and the other in her 20s.
Point is, it's not a deal breaker to people, or even for those in casual relationships, as long as all involved are responsible, respectful, and armed with knowledge. You're not stuck and unlovable because of it. Thought I'd put that out there just in case.
Your girlfriend leaves a lot to be desired in those areas. I do hope you get an apology and she sees how terrible what she did is. It is a massive violation of your trust, but also your body.
Appreciate the update, sorry this happened but my guy you handled it beautiful and made a captivating story for all of us.
Cheers
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I’m in my 40s and a hardcore introvert. People can be exhausting for me but I push through it and always try to be polite and gracious towards others because that’s what you do as a grown ass adult.
“His distaste for stupid people” makes my eyes roll into the back of my head. This man is 40 and sounds like an edgelord teenager. He’s not going to change, at this age people are pretty plastic. You’ve been with this dude since you were 19 but you have so much more life to on-line without this wet towel dragging you down. How is he making your life better?
Sex is generally a very important part of a relationship IMO. And realistically you have zero experience pleasing her sexually and I’m assuming she realized that and noticed her mistake. She should have been upfront with you from the beginning instead of leading you on until MARRIAGE. But hey, you live! and you learn. That’s the risk you take deciding to save yourself for marriage. It never works. Maybe don’t do that next time.
If you're planning to go look for a problem you will always find it.