Dude, you could work and then go to get your degree, the problem in here is that you want your father to pay for it, which I understand sadly He is refusing. Either marry or put the grown up pants and take responsibility for your life.
Hard disagree why should she have to tell him that she wasn’t going to do his laundry? Any adult would take responsibility for themselves unless they demand an imbalance to start.
Hindsight is 20/20
I remember an ex saying “I can fuck three guys by friday if it want to” when we were arguing
By that friday she was single and not by her choice (obvious she was lining someone up anyway)
Self respect always trumps a relationship dude, pick yours up and walk away with it, she ended this one when she doubled down
I've been there. My wife was told she looked 16 when we had been married for 5 years or so that would have made her around 26.
When she got pregnant with our first kid, she got lectured by an old woman for being a pregnant teen. She was almost 30.
Granted, all of this talk was always directly to her, but I've never dealt with what you're going through.
You have to try to focus on the problem, and that's other people. Not your wife.
But she, like my wife, has to tell them to fuck off and mind their business, or nothing changes.
Yeh to be fair her husband sounds like an idiot
If it's not sexual then I guess he won't mind her doing favors for other guys. ?
Dude, you could work and then go to get your degree, the problem in here is that you want your father to pay for it, which I understand sadly He is refusing. Either marry or put the grown up pants and take responsibility for your life.
Hard disagree why should she have to tell him that she wasn’t going to do his laundry? Any adult would take responsibility for themselves unless they demand an imbalance to start.