Honestly? You sound very negative and the fact that you mention you’ve been to countless therapists seems like you have issues with abandonment when things get very hot?
I agree that you need to ask her a few more specifics, BUT I think you should make it fun. Can you do a fun questionnaire or a “this or that” with her and make a drinking game out of it?
It'll be a win-win – she gets hyped up for the party, and you both feel more confident with how to plan.
I'm not American so I don't know target, but isn't it a chain of big shops? It's not a unique rug, if they mention it just say it's a funny coincidence.
Not making this a man or woman problem. The problem is he’s protesting too much. I would have the same way opinion if the situation was reversed. Believe me, I’ve been witness to both men and women blowing up their own lives through cheating. But I stand by my questions, downvotes not withstanding. If you having nothing to hide, why hide anything? Give her some grace and find out why she’s feeling like she is. We don’t know their history together or what they each experienced separately. Someone else on here said maybe she was blindsided in the last. That would give a person trust issues.
Psychopathy isn't the same as sociopathy which is mostly 'learned'.
Honestly? You sound very negative and the fact that you mention you’ve been to countless therapists seems like you have issues with abandonment when things get very hot?
No. Time to move on.
I agree that you need to ask her a few more specifics, BUT I think you should make it fun. Can you do a fun questionnaire or a “this or that” with her and make a drinking game out of it?
It'll be a win-win – she gets hyped up for the party, and you both feel more confident with how to plan.
thing is her parents literally don’t care for her and I can’t leave her alone
Couple's therapy only gives abusers more tools to control and abuse her further, tragically.
absolutely. He can be super selfish when masturbating. He doesn't have to give.
At 2 months, you barely know each other.
I'm not American so I don't know target, but isn't it a chain of big shops? It's not a unique rug, if they mention it just say it's a funny coincidence.
Not making this a man or woman problem. The problem is he’s protesting too much. I would have the same way opinion if the situation was reversed. Believe me, I’ve been witness to both men and women blowing up their own lives through cheating. But I stand by my questions, downvotes not withstanding. If you having nothing to hide, why hide anything? Give her some grace and find out why she’s feeling like she is. We don’t know their history together or what they each experienced separately. Someone else on here said maybe she was blindsided in the last. That would give a person trust issues.