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  1. I think you should sit your husband down and let him read your post and tell him that you are having extreme anxiety about what this can do for your relationship. Tell him you are willing to explore other areas of sexuality (role play, sexting, etc…whatever you're comfortable with) with him but it has to be just for the two of you as you realized that you did not enjoy the idea of others in your relationship.

    Be thankful that you realized this before you crossed any physical boundaries bc that would be much harder to come back from.

  2. Ok if I were you I’d carefully observe the texts, photos, etc. for the next couple of weeks, stall his social media, and randomly ask questions about the neighbor in a nonchalant way to see if I could catch him off-guard. You still don’t know if he is really doing smth behind your back or not, so don’t beat yourself up, but be careful.

  3. Stay cordial. If you're crossing paths, use it as a chance to look her in the eye and ask how she's doing. You don't have to be friends to care about someone's well-being. Everyone can use an ear every once in a while and venting to someone that's willing to listen, can make a huge difference. Another potentially difficult option would include complete detachment, mentally. Which isn't easy.

  4. Congratulations on your new freedom of getting to go back to being yourself instead of doing parlor tricks to pacify that jerk. Plus you are coming out of this relationship as a wiser person. The other lesson to learn is if you are dating someone and need to change important things about yourself in order for your partner to feel good, you are with the wrong person.

  5. It doesn’t sound like you even had a relationship—you only ever texted. Best thing to do is move on.

  6. Because she said she is on a break from you… and you are still texting her. I am not here to put you down or tell you that your efforts are wrong. I just want to put it nicely that just respect what you guys agreed on and wait till the 13th 🙂

  7. I (24F) went through my fiancés (28F phone.

    Why did you go through her phone in the first place?

    When I seen that I flipped, I couldn’t control my anger and threw her phone at her with some force once she got back in the car. Once I threw it, blood was everywhere. I mean EVERY WHERE. So of course she freaked. She had to get 3 stitches in yesterday.

    Wow…..are you in anger management therapy? Your reaction is NOT healthy at all.

    Once before her ex and mutual friend was at a pool party we were at. It got late, I was tired and wanted to go in. I begged my fiancé for us to go home, but she wanted to hang out longer. Once I left to go home, she stayed, and her ex was trying basically seduce her and get her to leave with her. I was told the next morning. I felt disrespected.

    So the issue is your fiancée, not other people. Why are you with her if you don't trust her?

  8. Open communication is probably a good thing. Is this a fantasy or is this an aspiration?

    You need to make it clear that you are monogamous. A fantasy is a fantasy but if he actually wants that in reality then he might build up resentment over unfulfilled wants. If he is in fact in preference of some kind of polyamory then you two might actually not be compatible going forwards. It's valid for you to be upset. It's valid for him to want what he wants.

  9. I’d stop being friends M and Y. That’s disgusting to think it’s okay and normal.

    X is good shit tho. Props to her/him for going to the authorities.

    Abusing children is NEVER okay.

  10. Thank you. That’s how I interpreted it but I know I’m not the best at reading between the lines which is why I wanted to ask others.

  11. No. It'll lead you into a destructive spiral with an eating disorder and extended hospital stay at the end. Because your weight is only a symptom, not the cause of your mental health problems.

  12. You’re doing all the right things so stay true to the course you started. Think of it as a ship going through rough waters. You’re on the starboard bow he’s on the port side. You’ve both got jobs to do to get through this. He just started therapy so he’s at the beginning of that journey. That could take a number of years to unravel whatever knots he’s accumulated over the years. Men’s mental health and happiness in our culture are often swept aside. They’re expected to “toughen up” and grit through it. I’d say you’re fortunate to have married someone who is open to seeking help. You married him for a reason. He is still that same person. But then add a child to that mix and suddenly things can go topsy turvy. Remember to find a way to make each other feel loved every day. Your reference to each others love languages is an excellent way to put this into practice. In addition, you need to carve out time for each other without the baby. Date nights, a weekend away. Seek out the help of family, grandparents, friends who may be more than happy to pitch in as babysitters for a bit. His work in hospitality is interesting and certainly better than overnights which is called the graveyard shift for a reason. He may also be able to apply his food service experience to other sectors with less challenging schedules. Working with food distributors (so many ex chefs find their way there!) as sales reps, corporate catering, etc. But hold on and fight for the relationship.

  13. I love him but I wish he would work and pitch in more in our relationship it’s frustrating sometimes seeing him but unnecessary things and be so wasteful because he knows he’s going to get money the next week from his panrents

  14. That's a lot of evidence as to why you need to break up with him. What's less clear is why this presents such a quandary. If it's because you on-line together it's a matter of maybe having to negotiate your way out of a lease. But there are ways to do just about anything. So research your options, find a new place to on-line if you need to. Then end this relationship and never talk to this guy again.

  15. Is this real? Are you trolling us?

    I believe sex is an important part of a relationship so much so that I just ended a 3 year relationship with a porn addict with PIED because we could not have sex due to his addiction and ED.

    So when I read your post title I was ready to sympathize with you, thinking you had a sexless marriage (less than 10x a year). Then I go on to read you are still having sex every 1-2 weeks which is average. Complaining about an average amount of sex. I’ve had friends who have sex x3 a year.

    Then I continue to read its less now because she’s pregnant with your second child. She’s carrying your baby and your primary concern is you are not getting enough sex. This can’t be real. Someone this selfish cannot exist. I feel so much sympathy for your girlfriend right now.

    YTA. Sex every 1-2 weeks in a 5 year relationship is not you being neglected. You have a high sex drive. It’s not fair to expect her to take care of it ALL the time. It’s not her job. You take care of yourself when your needs exceed hers.

  16. Thank you. He's seen a doctor twice, but all they say is that he's too fat and then he gets discouraged…

  17. If you are self harming and having symptoms of anxiety and depression, you need to seek mental healthcare immediately.

    You also need to stop making excuses for his behavior. If he truly loved, cared, and respected you and your relationship, he would not be doing these things. It's not your responsibility to protect his public image or his feelings. He obviously doesn't care how you feel. Tell him that you are self harming due to his cheating. Also, tell him that you are not going to lie for him anymore. If he's going to cheat on you, you are going to tell people how horribly he treats you.

    Side note, opening your marriage only further degrades you. It doesn't solve your marital problems. You'd only be giving him a pass to do everything he's doing right now, but you would still feel the exact same way: miserable, stressed out, taken for granted, embarrassed, ashamed, and hurt.

  18. This is your bf morality:-

    -he a cheater

    -he can't help he's desires (aka selfish)

    -if she was married then he have no problem breaking a marriage

    -he have no respect for you at all, he didn't even come clean

    Now I have a question for you op. Are you willing to billed a relationship with someone who have these morals? Can you forget what he did to you?

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