Sorry you're going through this. I would tell your dad about all the things you went through during this pregnancy and if he thinks being a stay at home mom isn't work then that might be more of a reflection on his parenting choices. I think you need to sit down with your husband and tell him that I am in order for this relationship to work you need more help around the house. If he refuses then tell him he will have to find a way to pay for a house cleaner. Your needs are valid don't waste your time on people who don't value your feelings.
Yeah I think I messed up by not showing any emotion to anyone but her. And then that led to me depending on her because of that. In an ideal world, I wish that after the services me and her could have just at least sat down and talked. But there wasn’t any time for that, it was like services – my family – her family – and then she was gone. And I couldn’t talk about it with anyone else. At least to the extent I could with her. I know it’s not her priority. It just would have been nice to chill out with her
Tell him to fo with his controlling behaviour
Sorry you're going through this. I would tell your dad about all the things you went through during this pregnancy and if he thinks being a stay at home mom isn't work then that might be more of a reflection on his parenting choices. I think you need to sit down with your husband and tell him that I am in order for this relationship to work you need more help around the house. If he refuses then tell him he will have to find a way to pay for a house cleaner. Your needs are valid don't waste your time on people who don't value your feelings.
Yeah I think I messed up by not showing any emotion to anyone but her. And then that led to me depending on her because of that. In an ideal world, I wish that after the services me and her could have just at least sat down and talked. But there wasn’t any time for that, it was like services – my family – her family – and then she was gone. And I couldn’t talk about it with anyone else. At least to the extent I could with her. I know it’s not her priority. It just would have been nice to chill out with her