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It is possible that you and he were thinking of “attractive” in different ways.
He clearly already finds you worthwhile and desirable, and is supportive in helping you. It isn't that you are unattractive to him as a person. He wants you in his life.
But he may have thought that you were asking about your physical or sexual appeal. And young as you both are, he didn't know to ask what you were trying to understand before answering the question. So he told you, honestly, that you'd be more (sexually) attractive if you lost weight.
You probably wouldn't disagree with that. But it ends up feeling like you are less of a person, in general, because of his answer.
To give a contrast, my wife has brown hair. When we were dating, I had told her how much I found red hair attractive. But she has never dyed her hair for me. I would probably find more physical appeal with such a hair color change, even now after thirty years of marriage. But I certainly know now that this isn't something I should pester her about, or focus on, as if it is the only thing that matters.
It sounds like your boyfriend isn't after you to lose weight, but is willing to do what he can to help you. So I'd recommend that you take some time to talk with him about what you said before.
Tell him that you know you asked the question, and were glad he was honest, but you still need to hear from him that he likes you even as you are, overweight. Because sometimes, even though you asked a question, you were thinking of one thing, and took his answer as about you, overall…not just your physical looks.
You can also tell him that if you ask any such question like that, then he should certainly ask to clarify what you really want to know about, or he can give you a set of answers for the different meanings involved.
I think the relationship is sustainable, and that — if he hasn't been trying to get you to lose weight — he finds you attractive just as you are. But you could both use more practice in communication. It can take years to get to a point where you are able to say what you mean to each other and have it come across.
The key, I think, is knowing if he's been trying to push you into losing weight, or not. If he's been nudging you in different ways, that seems like something important to him. If he only suggested exercising with you if you had talked of exercising yourself, that sounds supportive.
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And I had another after I understood
i just dont get it why he couldnt get this day off if he managed to get the weekend off lol
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Tell her she has dingleberries in her butt. Seriously she was aiming to hurt you here. She's probably trying to make you dependent on her. Craving for her approval. If you fall for it hook line and sinker, you're a sucker.
I didn’t find it funny /:
That’s a really inappropriate-and completely off-base leap you’re taking there. Though I imagine you’re doing it to attack a poster instead of the poster’s opinion.
Either way, that’s not what the sub is for. And not an opinion worth engaging with seriously.
You seem to be dating a freshman at college. Find a man
Seems like you're trusting this coworker a whole lot…
Dump this man. He's trying to isolate you and control everything in your life. You are being abused.
Okay, skip item one and concentrate on the other ones.
He doesn’t know their numbers by heart, he didn’t even have his moms number saved until I had it first lol. He also didn’t change it, I’m not giving him the silent treatment it’s more like I’m just letting myself calm down before talking to him again, like I said in another comment I sometimes let my emotions get the best of me and I can’t think straight and I cry. I’m not being an ass I or anything but I need my space right now so I can think clearly. I don’t like to argue nor do I want this to turn into one.
Unless there are details you’re excluding, I think you might be overthinking and over sensitive. The conclusions I came to are 1) your GFs sisters are excited for her and want to be a part of it, and 2) they probably do know her taste in jewelry better than you do (by your own admission). Could the lack of trust conclusion be driven by some insecurity on your part? I wouldn’t accuse them of not trusting you. If you need more time before you ring shop, that’s fine. Just politely tell them you’re excited to go ring shopping with them, but there are some logistical issues you need to iron out first. You’ll contact them when you’re ready. And thanks for volunteering to go with me. Good luck! And don’t break the bank on the hunk of carbon!!