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  1. If you don't agree with religion you should probably decline to be godparents altogether honestly. Godparents promise to be responsible for a child's religious education and upbringing, and if you are not religious you are not the people for the job. I declined being my friend's son's godmother for the same reason, not only am i not catholic, I'm an atheist, so it would have been wrong for me to accept that position. Tell your brother and SIL that while you're both incredibly touched to have been asked, as non-religious people you are not suitable for this position in their child's life.

  2. It’s upsetting that this comment is so far down in the list. I probably would’ve done the exact same thing as OP. It’s really troubling that the husband expected her to keep that a secret to her support system in the first place.

    Like yeah I get the hypocrisy of wanting to keep something private but then not keeping someone else’s thing private. But telling a trusted part of your support system that you feel emotionally (or maybe even physically too? who knows) unsafe is way different than gossiping about a spouse’s secret.

  3. Even if he's reached the decision that he's not going to be able to change his father, he should at least be standing between him and you if anything like this comes up. He's your husband. He chose you. He needs to stand up for you.

  4. I often see 'giving the benefit of the doubt'…. instead of actually communicating… to often be what I would consider 'miscommunication.'

    It's six of one half a dozen of the other.

    If the relationship needs to end, communication quickly ascertains that, when done correctly. The writing stops being on the wall and more like spoken aloud and to your face. Doesn't change the message.

    As for nutcase scenario, this is more of “save those worries for another day.” I'm not even saying your prediction is wrong, but, if this situation resolves in the husband actually and truly stopping, for instance, then any possible scenario of escalation isn't applicable anymore. If the situation resolves in OP moving out and leaving the relationship, it's not applicable anymore there, either.

    It's an unnecessary variable you're tossing on to add pressure to a situation that doesn't need more pressure. “Not doing anything and letting it escalate” really isn't one of the options on the table and so detailing the outcome of such a scenario is…overkill. Not wrong, just not necessary.

    I too have seen many people leave that frog to simmer too long, but OP is already looking to take action and is simply seeking advice on what action to take. His frog is already boiled and he knows it. “I can't take this anymore” line has already been crossed.

  5. Maybe this is too far-fetched, but in my experience people who blame others for something out of the blue, with no evidence, are usually guilty of something similar themselves, and seek a way to justify whatever they feel guilty about.

    Either way, I see how such behavior would make you want to reconsider your relationship. I hope she understands she's ruining her marriage over nothing, and will seek ways to fix it before it's too late. I'm afraid there's nothing you can do other than be very clear about your boundaries.

  6. More than just this you're not gross for being what she isn't. Don't let it do this to you and change your whole perspective on what normal and ok is, and what you are. She is a minority but it's totally OK for her to be that way. But most girlfriends aren't going to make you feel shame for just having a normal impulse, that they have too.

    This is why people from extremely Conservative religious families separate from them, and then go on to have issues with sex for the rest of their life. They are taught and start to believe normal body relations and impulses are shameful. They're not.

    It might be naked right now, as it's early days and the honeymoon period and hormones are going high, but long term you're going to end up developing your own issues with sex and shame if you stay here. You would be better off finding someone you're actually compatible with, on one of the fundamental things core to more relationships and that determine relationship satisfaction going on. Otherwise when it finally gets to much for you, or you're fostering resentment and constant bickering and arguments are happening… you've wasted a few years being unhappy and not having sex, being shamed for wanting it and also have to break up after a longer committed period, which could be harder and involve things like having to move house etc if you've moved in together.

  7. See, this is one of those things that looks small at a glance but are much bigger.

    Ask yourself why it's so hot for him to respect your very reasonable, clear request.

    Ask why he needed to pick your chips instead of his own.

    What was his motivation? Why was he willing and in fact eager to do something he knew would annoy you?

  8. Poor dude. I would text him how he is doing. He is probably super embarrassed and you're most likely not going to see him again. But maybe he can lift a little embarrassment after having a conversation about it. He might not respond as well. But it's worth a shot.

  9. Poor dude. I would text him how he is doing. He is probably super embarrassed and you're most likely not going to see him again. But maybe he can lift a little embarrassment after having a conversation about it. He might not respond as well. But it's worth a shot.

  10. The Myers-Briggs psych profiles are nonsense. They’ve been debunked for years so don’t go down the rabbit hole of making like choices based on you being ‘ENTP’

    If you’re blocked then you should regard that as a sign. If she wanted contact you’d be unblocked. She’s unlikely to have remained celibate while she pines for you so just assume that she’s dating.

    Live your life, meet people, start a new relationship with someone who doesn’t have you blocked.

  11. I got this idea exactly from the part you said “date a child”. Look, I am not trying to be aggressive but there are many comments that take everything wrong way. The thing about development is true yes, but it doesn't prevent rational thought. Or the legal of age wouldnt be 18.

    I am not really one to talk since I tried to kill myself at 21. I know what you mean. But this doesnt make him stupid. Everything else is fine and dandy. Would you expect a 20 year old to take full responsibility, do all kinds of housework, be a supportive partner in every matter and have healthy communication patterns? No. He does though.

    Im already pissed at life to find love with someone this young when people I get along are mostly 40+. It is problematic at every point. I am not even talking about bringing our families into this.

    But I will not give up that easily. I will try everything I can. I do not love easily and obviously my love for him has a strong foundation.

    I would stay single rather than play a losing game. Thats why I was single all my life, never had a relationship because all of them obviously would fail. Until this guy, who makes all the statistics go above 95% and made something move within me.

    Its a sick joke the flings I mentioned are from a period of time my mental health practically deteriorated and I dont even remember them clearly. Everything goes bullshit at this point and I started seeing this problem is not about his “developmental process” but traumatic break up with his ex.

    I knew his trauma and depression would come at some point. Its frustrating though.

    Maybe I still didnt recover from my recent bout of sickness and cant really explain ehat I mean at all…

    We are on a one week resting time before we talk about this with details and I only wanted to collect some suggestions to him to try. Thats it.

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