Why not call him out on it? Ask him directly and say “if you’re into her, let me know and we can be friends. If you string me along to get closer to her, we’re both going to think less of you.”
Make it awkward, you’ve had four dates, see what he’s thinking.
I’m very confused…..are you saying OP is responsible for Husband’s affair’s baby? Cuz you might wanna backtrack that….. because the life of baby is expensive to be taken care. Yet I never did say anything about Husband’s affair which never includes OP’s post. So I’m having naked time following what you meant…
Don‘t parent him, leave. You aren‘t his mother.
Why not call him out on it? Ask him directly and say “if you’re into her, let me know and we can be friends. If you string me along to get closer to her, we’re both going to think less of you.”
Make it awkward, you’ve had four dates, see what he’s thinking.
I’m very confused…..are you saying OP is responsible for Husband’s affair’s baby? Cuz you might wanna backtrack that….. because the life of baby is expensive to be taken care. Yet I never did say anything about Husband’s affair which never includes OP’s post. So I’m having naked time following what you meant…
I’m an over thinker. I’ll sleep on it lol