you’re right, I tried a sort of similar approach to this but definitely could see a better conversation starting if i come at it a little more blunt like this.
I kinda knew this, but i am a good person and i know (she told me this) that i make her happy. I am (literally) the only and closet friend to her.
I know how happy she is when i am around and it’s something that i want. But i know that either way i won’t be happy, at least one of us is and i want to help her during this unstable phase.
The thing is that all of her reasons are extremely valid.
you’re right, I tried a sort of similar approach to this but definitely could see a better conversation starting if i come at it a little more blunt like this.
November 2023 🙁
I kinda knew this, but i am a good person and i know (she told me this) that i make her happy. I am (literally) the only and closet friend to her.
I know how happy she is when i am around and it’s something that i want. But i know that either way i won’t be happy, at least one of us is and i want to help her during this unstable phase.
The thing is that all of her reasons are extremely valid.
Wow, so you really just don’t even respect her at all.
What if the shoe was on the other foote and he was traveling with a couple and an extra girl for a month and you couldnt go?
You've already figured it out: Leave.