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Does he not want to get married or does he not want an expensive wedding? You can go to the courthouse and pay a couple hundred bucks for a marriage license and host people at your place for the party if the wedding is the issue.
If he doesn't want to marry you, I would dig into why. If he's happy to spend his life with you, why is he resistant to making it legally official? All marriage really changes is that you have some additional legal protections and tax benefits. What's his objection to the idea of it?
Why would I need therapy for?
Are you an idiot? No, you're not an idiot. You're a person in love w a horrid man.
Is it the right thing to dump his ass? Yes. It is.
Stripping is work. You performed a service and were paid. It was a job. Just like the Army, it's a job.
He's not the right guy. We've all loved the wrong person before. It happens. It doesn't make it hurt any less.
You have value. You are worthy of love. You matter. Your feelings matter. Love yourself and dump and block him. He no longer brings anything positive to your life. Hence, he serves no purpose. You've outgrow him.
Being so comfortable with each other already, how can that be addressed?
It simply cannot. Not much you can do on your end. It's mainly on her.
she feels that a commitment to explore a romantic relationship might need to include passion and that spark
You only create passion and a spark with intense sexual tension. You two have a platonic relationship and more importantly started off as a platonic relationship so that makes it harder to shift.
However, she’s mentioned that she has some hesitation because she could see potential with other people, but recognizes that there is so much alignment in our lives that she would not want to jeopardize our status.
This is a very sensible mating strategy but understand if you just hang back and be the “backup” it will just prolong whatever you seek out of this.
Of course, I am more than willing to provide time and space for her to work through a decision
Don't just stand around while waiting, you should be exploring opinions as well. You've already put the motion on the table and been quite clear with her.
notion of not being a clear choice definitely does bring up anxiety and insecurity on my end
My dude, you're not the clear choice, you're the backup/safety net. I've been that guy, you dont want to be that guy.
perhaps an opportunity for each other to explore elsewhere without commitment or guilt is the best way moving forward?
Yes. You're very close to being that guy she “settled for”.
Perhaps there is a better way to approach this, or maybe a perspective that I am not seeing.
You've basically done everything you need to on your end. The standard procedure of transitioning a friendship to romantic one is to let time past and then when you meet again you “renegotiate” the terms of your “relationship”.
You're literally already done this successfully and it turns out there's no spark. So get out and start new relationships, yes its annoying and tedious but your current situation isn't ideal.
You're presently the backup guy while she shops around some more. You have to decide if that position is agreeable with you.
You aren’t the asshole, but think long and hot about how far you really want to take this.
The guy sounds like a distasteful asshole, but if he’s an 67 year old immigrant then I would probably give him a second chance if he’s willing to apologize.
He probably won’t actually change. But I think you’ll regret your mom not being there.
Though my opinion might change depending on what exactly he said.