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Yeah describing one's self as an alpha is a red flag. The whole concept is complete bullshit. Self proclaimed “alphas” tend to be emotionally unintelligent assholes who think they should be further in life than they are. They think of themselves as logical creatures who are separate from their feelings which is not only fundamentally flawed, but also complete bullshit.
Alphas tend to be some of the most over emotional babies you'll ever meet, only they don't perceive anger as an emotion (which of course it is) They lose their temper insanely easily (anger again and inability to regulate one's emotions i.e “over emotional”) They tend to devalue emotion as a concept, which is hilarious since 1. They're emotional wrecks and 2. People need both emotion and cognition to be well rounded individuals.
Finally, and I've said this a thousand times. These guys tend to perceive the counterpoint or “opposite” if you like, of emotion, to be logic. They think that because they are not emotional (which again, is bullshit, they are emotional, they just don't know how to identify or manage their emotions) that they are somehow “logical”. Again, total horseshit, because the counterpoint to emotion is not logic, it is cognition. As in more thinking than feeling. Cognition and logic are not the same thing, someone can be using cognition to deal with an issue and still be wildly illogical or irrational.
Anyway he sounds like an ill tempered, pompous asshole who can't control his emotions. He seems to think that his way of doing things is better because they're his but can't see the il logic of this because he lack self awareness. That's my take anyway.
Honestly you may be right. I asked him if he felt like we talked a good amount during the week and he said he was okay with it. If we Snapchat throughout the day and later on have conversations when the day has died down that’s probably enough. I just have a roommate whose bf goes to our same school and she texts him 24/7 throughout the day and sees him all the time so unconsciously it might be making me insecure.
I honestly just looked at your age. Take a look at how many women your age or sometimes younger go for the really older dudes and then figure out they were taken advantage of. I know some people on here hate it when a lot of us point out that this big age gap is 99% of the time unhealthy and abusive.
I am truly sorry you had to learn the nude way that a 40 something yr old is typically only interested in a 20 something yr old because they perceive you as someone that they can easily manipulate.
He knew you were vulnerable and took advantage of that. I hope you can learn and grow from this and if you're not already in therapy might consider it.
You are currently, and always will be in third place in this girls life. You have a decision to make and you don’t need us to tell you what your choices are. She has shown you who she is, you need to believe her.
This also has “I’m in love with my best friend but I hate myself for it so I’m going to make it my boyfriend’s problem” vibes.
Girl, you’re husband at fault ?. All his excuses… are that.. excuses. He sucks, he likes all this, and I wouldn’t be surprised if he hooked up. I guess if you want to have sex men, become an Uber driver ??‍♀️
I am pretty ignoranti about this stuff, may I ask why the numbing spray was not enjoyable for you as well? Does it affect you physically or it's more that since he enjoys it less, then you also enjoy it less?
Sorry for the intimate question, hope everything works out after a chill conversation and a visit to the doctor!
Yeah describing one's self as an alpha is a red flag. The whole concept is complete bullshit. Self proclaimed “alphas” tend to be emotionally unintelligent assholes who think they should be further in life than they are. They think of themselves as logical creatures who are separate from their feelings which is not only fundamentally flawed, but also complete bullshit.
Alphas tend to be some of the most over emotional babies you'll ever meet, only they don't perceive anger as an emotion (which of course it is) They lose their temper insanely easily (anger again and inability to regulate one's emotions i.e “over emotional”) They tend to devalue emotion as a concept, which is hilarious since 1. They're emotional wrecks and 2. People need both emotion and cognition to be well rounded individuals.
Finally, and I've said this a thousand times. These guys tend to perceive the counterpoint or “opposite” if you like, of emotion, to be logic. They think that because they are not emotional (which again, is bullshit, they are emotional, they just don't know how to identify or manage their emotions) that they are somehow “logical”. Again, total horseshit, because the counterpoint to emotion is not logic, it is cognition. As in more thinking than feeling. Cognition and logic are not the same thing, someone can be using cognition to deal with an issue and still be wildly illogical or irrational.
Anyway he sounds like an ill tempered, pompous asshole who can't control his emotions. He seems to think that his way of doing things is better because they're his but can't see the il logic of this because he lack self awareness. That's my take anyway.
Honestly you may be right. I asked him if he felt like we talked a good amount during the week and he said he was okay with it. If we Snapchat throughout the day and later on have conversations when the day has died down that’s probably enough. I just have a roommate whose bf goes to our same school and she texts him 24/7 throughout the day and sees him all the time so unconsciously it might be making me insecure.
I honestly just looked at your age. Take a look at how many women your age or sometimes younger go for the really older dudes and then figure out they were taken advantage of. I know some people on here hate it when a lot of us point out that this big age gap is 99% of the time unhealthy and abusive.
I am truly sorry you had to learn the nude way that a 40 something yr old is typically only interested in a 20 something yr old because they perceive you as someone that they can easily manipulate.
He knew you were vulnerable and took advantage of that. I hope you can learn and grow from this and if you're not already in therapy might consider it.
No. she sent her a video asking her for the take-out. I saw her face.
OP really should just pay alimony and switch the bills over
she is warning people so they don't end up in the same boat
You didn't break up with them because they're trans. You broke up with them because they're a liar. That's a damn good reason.
You are currently, and always will be in third place in this girls life. You have a decision to make and you don’t need us to tell you what your choices are. She has shown you who she is, you need to believe her.
This also has “I’m in love with my best friend but I hate myself for it so I’m going to make it my boyfriend’s problem” vibes.
Girl, you’re husband at fault ?. All his excuses… are that.. excuses. He sucks, he likes all this, and I wouldn’t be surprised if he hooked up. I guess if you want to have sex men, become an Uber driver ??‍♀️
Your viewpoint makes sense.
He is relaxed because he is offloading his expenses on to others (his parents).
Can you really respect or depend on a guy with no real world view of money?
If he was as diligent as you and maximizing his opportunity then you would feel reassured. But his attitude suggests the opposite.
Imagine a future life living together. It would be constant financial arguments because he doesn’t understand and never had the need.
I am pretty ignoranti about this stuff, may I ask why the numbing spray was not enjoyable for you as well? Does it affect you physically or it's more that since he enjoys it less, then you also enjoy it less?
Sorry for the intimate question, hope everything works out after a chill conversation and a visit to the doctor!