That and OP said “I’m really looking forward to my kids witnessing a healthy relationship even though it was born out of a mess” but she doesn’t even know what sort of living situation this will be like. She isn’t thinking of the negative that is bound to happen, she’s in list land still.
Pretty sure people knew who they were without needing the presence of European explorers to define them.
All I know is that no Indigenous nation in my neck of the woods uses “Brown” to define any of us. Moreso we care about having a familial or kinship connection to the cultural group and a knowledge of our traditions/language. There’s no “Brown” people, and I would assume the same would’ve went for people from Africa had there not been a slave trade that necessitated the need for colourism based hierarchies.
Unless he shaves, there will still be public hair rubbing against your skin and trimmed public hair is more poky and irritating. Maybe he's not 6he one.
You promised her first. Then decided your buddies are more important than taking her to the airport. Your priorities are backwards and I can see why she's hurt. After being with someone a while, you need to make an effort to make them feel you still think they are special. You can't just assume they know. She doesn't want an uber or a friend to take her. She wants your time and attention and to know you are still there for her even after all these years and that you care enough to put her first before your golf buddies. Like you said you would.
If that was my friend, I'd be blasting her all over social media for her betrayal
Exactly what you just said. Negotiations are very rarely cut-and-dried.
First person to dig their heels in loses.
That and OP said “I’m really looking forward to my kids witnessing a healthy relationship even though it was born out of a mess” but she doesn’t even know what sort of living situation this will be like. She isn’t thinking of the negative that is bound to happen, she’s in list land still.
Pretty sure people knew who they were without needing the presence of European explorers to define them.
All I know is that no Indigenous nation in my neck of the woods uses “Brown” to define any of us. Moreso we care about having a familial or kinship connection to the cultural group and a knowledge of our traditions/language. There’s no “Brown” people, and I would assume the same would’ve went for people from Africa had there not been a slave trade that necessitated the need for colourism based hierarchies.
It won't end well even if you did all those things for her but let me ask you, despite not having a car have you taken her on dates like she asked?
Unless he shaves, there will still be public hair rubbing against your skin and trimmed public hair is more poky and irritating. Maybe he's not 6he one.
I try to get him to talk but he will get frustrated so I don’t bother. He’s parents says he has mental health issues too.
You promised her first. Then decided your buddies are more important than taking her to the airport. Your priorities are backwards and I can see why she's hurt. After being with someone a while, you need to make an effort to make them feel you still think they are special. You can't just assume they know. She doesn't want an uber or a friend to take her. She wants your time and attention and to know you are still there for her even after all these years and that you care enough to put her first before your golf buddies. Like you said you would.