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I am not planning or wanting to file for divorce personally. I love my partner. I have been considering asking for marriage counseling after this incident. I hate how he allows his father to treat me and behave in our home. I am furious at this point and I want FIL gone. But I would not lie about a crime. He would be trespassing since his permission to be here was revoked if he didn’t leave. But perhaps that is being too petty.
I currently can not leave because my car won’t start after a week long -30 cold snap. The trickle charger is on the battery for the car, so hopefully by tomorrow just going to a hotel will be an option. I should not have to leave my own home though. But maybe it is the better option if I want to save my marriage.
“she put thought into her gift” no she didn't. If she did, she would've gotten her something she would've actually liked. Like you did. She needs to get over herself. Ask her how she would feel if she made it known she liked jewelry for gifts and you got her an anvil.
You guys should not be partners. You tumbled into his lap and moved in now having a baby. This isn’t a “we can make it work” situation. Both of those decisions take a lot of time and consideration to make.
He was kind at first and now he’s stuck please don’t trick yourself into thinking it’s anything else.
I’m really trying that’s why I made the tinder. I’m just struggling actually mentally moving on. I’m not sure if my logic got mixed up? I am starting therapy too because I do want to be in a happy relationship but I’m so mixed up right now.
Yeah I don’t. I just don’t get why get into relationships
You’re not overreacting. Your bf and his dad are disgusting and they do not respect you. Any good partner would stand up to their parent who makes comments like this
You called it. I bet he was planning to show her all the comments explaining that he’d actually been sexually assaulted and was IN NO WAY to blame for what happened with this malicious woman.
Decent people do react like this because they don't know how to react. She dropped a bomb on him and he floundered, no one is perfect.
We may think we have the words and know exactly what to do and say but until a moment like this comes it's all moot. I've had to hold more than one crying partner recounting something traumatic like this.
The first time a partner opened up about SA I said “I'm sorry.” I just kind of sat there trying to process this awful story I'd just been told. I didn't know what to say or do my mind was racing. Should I hug them, should I comfort them with words.
I didn't hug because I didn't know if it was right to touch them, I didn't want to trigger them. I didn't say anything because I didn't think I could say the right things. So for like a good 15 to 30 seconds i just looked at them.
After that I said “It's okay and I'm so sorry luv.” Then I asked if they wanted me to hold them. We cuddled they cried and I still had no clue what to say or do so I just held them.
We had been dating for 6 months at the time. I don't know how messed up and jumbled I would've been if it was my wife of 12 years.
I am not planning or wanting to file for divorce personally. I love my partner. I have been considering asking for marriage counseling after this incident. I hate how he allows his father to treat me and behave in our home. I am furious at this point and I want FIL gone. But I would not lie about a crime. He would be trespassing since his permission to be here was revoked if he didn’t leave. But perhaps that is being too petty.
I currently can not leave because my car won’t start after a week long -30 cold snap. The trickle charger is on the battery for the car, so hopefully by tomorrow just going to a hotel will be an option. I should not have to leave my own home though. But maybe it is the better option if I want to save my marriage.
“she put thought into her gift” no she didn't. If she did, she would've gotten her something she would've actually liked. Like you did. She needs to get over herself. Ask her how she would feel if she made it known she liked jewelry for gifts and you got her an anvil.
You guys should not be partners. You tumbled into his lap and moved in now having a baby. This isn’t a “we can make it work” situation. Both of those decisions take a lot of time and consideration to make.
He was kind at first and now he’s stuck please don’t trick yourself into thinking it’s anything else.
do you mind sharing what u guys did to make it work since there might be time differences.
Because currently I am really worried about what might happen
I’ll be waiting for it too ?
My long distance relationship isn’t what I thought it was…. Do I still have a chance with my husband ?
5 years is a not a few years when you’re 18
It sounds like you’re gonna try and sell him a food MLM once you pitch the “optimal diet” for his genome. Just kidding.
But seriously this sounds really overbearing and controlling. Especially for two months together. But if he’s fine with it than sure whatever!
my mistake, doesn't change my point though. this whole thing is fucked.
The person you replied to congratulated you for being sober and said leave the girl/ situation alone. That’s it. Reel your neck in mate.
you dont. you seriously blew it.
Why are you even considering for one second moving in with him and his mom? ?‍♀️
I’m really trying that’s why I made the tinder. I’m just struggling actually mentally moving on. I’m not sure if my logic got mixed up? I am starting therapy too because I do want to be in a happy relationship but I’m so mixed up right now.
Yeah I don’t. I just don’t get why get into relationships
You’re not overreacting. Your bf and his dad are disgusting and they do not respect you. Any good partner would stand up to their parent who makes comments like this
You called it. I bet he was planning to show her all the comments explaining that he’d actually been sexually assaulted and was IN NO WAY to blame for what happened with this malicious woman.
Decent people do react like this because they don't know how to react. She dropped a bomb on him and he floundered, no one is perfect.
We may think we have the words and know exactly what to do and say but until a moment like this comes it's all moot. I've had to hold more than one crying partner recounting something traumatic like this.
The first time a partner opened up about SA I said “I'm sorry.” I just kind of sat there trying to process this awful story I'd just been told. I didn't know what to say or do my mind was racing. Should I hug them, should I comfort them with words.
I didn't hug because I didn't know if it was right to touch them, I didn't want to trigger them. I didn't say anything because I didn't think I could say the right things. So for like a good 15 to 30 seconds i just looked at them.
After that I said “It's okay and I'm so sorry luv.” Then I asked if they wanted me to hold them. We cuddled they cried and I still had no clue what to say or do so I just held them.
We had been dating for 6 months at the time. I don't know how messed up and jumbled I would've been if it was my wife of 12 years.