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Okay. I don’t believe that things can never be the same. It would take work but sometimes getting through the naked stuff makes us stronger. He’s willing to get help but I also recommend couples counseling. If you still feel the same way after that, then you leave. I would fight for it because he has owned up to his behavior and is willing to do the work to change. I’m really sorry that you are going through this.
Communication is key, straight up being cold and indifferent and saying everything is fine when it isn't is not productive, healthy or conducive to a good relationship.
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im majoring in law, so far ive been very lucky not to have to take out loans.
My long term advice would be for you to finish school and him stick it out until he gets a better job offer. Two incomes give you a lot more flexibility.
i also wanna take a moment and thank you for your advice and thank you for taking the time to talk with me, it helped alot
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As a child of a persuasion decision, please don’t have one just to appease her. Growing up having parents who resented me was pretty rough.
Okay. I don’t believe that things can never be the same. It would take work but sometimes getting through the naked stuff makes us stronger. He’s willing to get help but I also recommend couples counseling. If you still feel the same way after that, then you leave. I would fight for it because he has owned up to his behavior and is willing to do the work to change. I’m really sorry that you are going through this.
It was probably not either of those things. And look, even if those were an issue, what he did is still unacceptable and rude as hell.
Communication is key, straight up being cold and indifferent and saying everything is fine when it isn't is not productive, healthy or conducive to a good relationship.
Driving in a deeply emotional state is not only risking your life but others on the road as well. Sometimes giving space is good for everyone.
Taking time to be upset, to need space, or time away is fine when communicated to the partner.
Hopefully you picked a good major with good job and pay prospects, because trying to pay for two people and student loans is a heavy burden.
im majoring in law, so far ive been very lucky not to have to take out loans.
My long term advice would be for you to finish school and him stick it out until he gets a better job offer. Two incomes give you a lot more flexibility.
i also wanna take a moment and thank you for your advice and thank you for taking the time to talk with me, it helped alot