I don't think you're overreacting. You have a child on the way. For your own comfort as much as your future baby, it will need its own bedroom. That baby will eventually grow and grow to be a child, a teen and an adult. It cannot sleep in your room or in the living room forever, and I think he probably doesn't understand how much space a baby will need, for cribs, toys, clothes, etc.
It doesn't need to be overnight, but the process of selling a place, buying a new one or even temporarily renting a larger place can take some time to process. Especially if there's a property chain involved, and moving would be easier to do, physically and mentally sooner rather than later when your due date nears.
I get he may have attachment to a place, but you are going to outgrow it.
Never seen in this sub: An originally monogamous relationship that continues to thrive after one of the partners suggests an open relationship.
Using her words, let her go so that she is completely free to gain experience with others so that she knows what love (and sex with other partners) really is.
You’re very young, OP, and traveling that road yourself without any entanglements will be beneficial. Short-term pain for long-term maturity and wisdom.
Hiding from the world and I have absolutely no clue how to make friends as an adult. I’ve tried a few meetups, no luck. Work skews towards almost entirely 50+ year old guys, unfortunately.
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Hi all. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years. I’ve just realized that he gets angry when I don’t give him a blowjob after he does something nice for me, like takes me out to eat or to see a movie. This makes me feel weird because it’s almost like I have to pay him back for doing something nice? Today we went to see a movie and I usually park at his place and he drives us to the location. When we got to the garage I hugged and kissed him and he goes “you don’t want to go to my apartment?” I said “Oh no I can’t today I told you my brother is flying in tonight so I want to be home before he gets there” and he got super mad and starting getting snappy with me and literally walked away. I texted him when I got home saying how I didn’t appreciate the way he acted. He responds with “I took you to the movies and made sure you had a good day and you couldn’t even give me 10 minutes after?” Why do men always want us to pay them back after they do something nice for us? Why can’t we just go to the movies and end the night with a hug and kiss? Why does everything have to be sexual every single day? That hurt my feelings and made me feel like he just wanted a blowjob and that’s why he hung out with me today. I do satisfy his needs 95% of the time but sometimes I just want to chill and not do anything sexual. Am I wrong for this?
Dump her and move on.
I don't think you're overreacting. You have a child on the way. For your own comfort as much as your future baby, it will need its own bedroom. That baby will eventually grow and grow to be a child, a teen and an adult. It cannot sleep in your room or in the living room forever, and I think he probably doesn't understand how much space a baby will need, for cribs, toys, clothes, etc.
It doesn't need to be overnight, but the process of selling a place, buying a new one or even temporarily renting a larger place can take some time to process. Especially if there's a property chain involved, and moving would be easier to do, physically and mentally sooner rather than later when your due date nears.
I get he may have attachment to a place, but you are going to outgrow it.
Karma always happens and rightfully so
In your neighborhood!
I would ask him to get his testosterone levels checked for starters. They might be too low. A male that age should have a higher sex drive.
That is one heck of a browser history. The dude isn’t hiding it.
Never seen in this sub: An originally monogamous relationship that continues to thrive after one of the partners suggests an open relationship.
Using her words, let her go so that she is completely free to gain experience with others so that she knows what love (and sex with other partners) really is.
You’re very young, OP, and traveling that road yourself without any entanglements will be beneficial. Short-term pain for long-term maturity and wisdom.
They are barely 10 years apart. That's not even a generation
I do need to do what is best for me. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Hiding from the world and I have absolutely no clue how to make friends as an adult. I’ve tried a few meetups, no luck. Work skews towards almost entirely 50+ year old guys, unfortunately.
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Hi all. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years. I’ve just realized that he gets angry when I don’t give him a blowjob after he does something nice for me, like takes me out to eat or to see a movie. This makes me feel weird because it’s almost like I have to pay him back for doing something nice? Today we went to see a movie and I usually park at his place and he drives us to the location. When we got to the garage I hugged and kissed him and he goes “you don’t want to go to my apartment?” I said “Oh no I can’t today I told you my brother is flying in tonight so I want to be home before he gets there” and he got super mad and starting getting snappy with me and literally walked away. I texted him when I got home saying how I didn’t appreciate the way he acted. He responds with “I took you to the movies and made sure you had a good day and you couldn’t even give me 10 minutes after?” Why do men always want us to pay them back after they do something nice for us? Why can’t we just go to the movies and end the night with a hug and kiss? Why does everything have to be sexual every single day? That hurt my feelings and made me feel like he just wanted a blowjob and that’s why he hung out with me today. I do satisfy his needs 95% of the time but sometimes I just want to chill and not do anything sexual. Am I wrong for this?