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No it isn't. What do you think will happen now that her dad knows? Nothing.
It is easy to say as someone who is not part of that culture.
I've absolutely never bought my in-laws a Christmas present, and none of my partners have ever gifted my folks one.
She wants those things because that’s what she deep down wants. She wants to be a mom and nothing else. Which is perfectly valid. But she doesn’t care who she does it with. She’s trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. Your problems and issues will only get worse. I could say some more stereotypical and potentially meaner things about her. But the truth is that none of that will make your relationship and your happiness better. I was in a long term till I was 26. Broke up because i finally accepted we were different people and I deserved more. Couple years later I found the one and I couldn’t be happier. Trust your gut. Go find the one. You will not regret it
That's why I said if done perfectly. If done perfectly, it's pretty safe, which the link confirms.
If you think your aunt will be a good support for your mum, ask her to accompany you while you tell her. You don't have to tell your aunt first, she just needs to know that you have something important to tell your mum and you would like her support.
Yeah people are allowed to say no if they feel like it
Rather than judging you, I'm going to actually answer your request:
Communication is key at every step, the entire time, forever. Check in with each other regularly about your emotional state in regards to the situations; are you still both okay with it? Is someone getting uncomfortable, and maybe you need to put a hold on things for a while? You need to be able to clearly articulate what (if any) boundaries you have, and so does she. Consent can be retracted at any time; both of you have the right to both revoke the entire arrangement and to veto a specific partner at any time, before the fact. You can't retro-actively forbid a specific partner or cancel the arrangement and get feisty about a violation of the rules. You must decide on whatever ground rules you want mutually, and stick with them. Any changes must be agreed on together, before they take effect. Is this a “don't ask don't tell” situation or can you talk about your encounters? Or does she want a play-by-play? Are there limits to your activities? No kissing (this never works, btw), no vaginal, no anal, whatever? Are there requirements for your activities? Always wear a condom? Get on PrEP? Regular testing? Is there a “who” restriction? Some couples insist on one-night stands only, other couples insist on a single regular partner, others have all kinds of other versions of those rules. It doesn't matter what you choose, so long as you and your girlfriend are both okay with it. Is there a “where” restriction? Some couples have a simple “not in my bed” rule, some don't want it in their home, some it doesn't matter as long as the uninvolved partner isn't home, some partners insist on only playing together. Again, it doesn't matter what you choose, so long as you and your girlfriend are both okay with it. What permissions does she have? Your post indicates that she still has some sexual desire and capability for activity, does she have the same rights you do (trust me, she'd better)? Make sure that whatever you do, your sex life with her always comes first. When she's up for it, you need to be; if you're not because you're worn out from indulging with someone else, she's going to feel neglected and secondary no matter what the circumstances are. You both have to be down for this. If one of you is a bit reluctant, that's one thing, but if she's just doing this to “save” the relationship she thinks will fail if she doesn't, then the relationship is going to fail anyway. That's the one circumstance where open relationships are guaranteed to fail – when one party doesn't want to be open but agrees because they think it'll save the relationship. Those are the stories everyone tells (“Oh, I knew a couple who opened their relationship, it fell apart not long after”) and they happen because the relationship was already failing, and allowing people to go have sex with other people doesn't heal the fundamentals of the relationship
My only concern here is that she's doing this because of her disability and that she sees this as the only way to save things. If that's the case, it's going to hurt her very much and things are going to end even more messily than they would otherwise. You need to have a real heart-to-heart with her and dig deep to figure out if this is something she's really interested in or if she's doing it to “save the relationship”. Because if it's the latter, it not only won't save the relationship, it'll bring about the collapse a lot harder, a lot messier, and a lot more painfully than it would be if you just break up.
You should also consider how you feel about this. Open relationships sound great, but they're a lot of work and they're complex. If you're both seriously interested in trying this, it can be a lot of fun. If you're not though, if one of you is uncomfortable or feels like they're under duress, it's just going to make things much worse, and you're better off ending things now.
Either way, best of luck to you!
Again, can I seriously ask, because I'd like to know any maybe the information would help other people as misguided as you – where did you get the idea that asking a female friend to be FWB instead of a date etc was acceptable and wouldn't cause issues? I'm betting you didn't come up with this on your own, so who or what made you think this was acceptable, because you genuinely seem surprised that this went badly.
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Your fiancé is the one that should speak with her.
Police. ASAP.
Youre right. Small steps first, and making sure shes comfy should be what i should really focus on. Thank you for this advice! And I understand that part about leaving for sex and whatnot. But its something i wanna do with her not out of lust, but greater connection. But ig sex isnt the only thing that can bring great connection. Youre also right about the maturity aspect of things. I wasnt thinking straight and just went off with my inner monologue and overthinking. Shes definitely going to be worth the wait. What im waiting for isnt sex, it should be making memories with her as we grow closer.
WOW. What a terrible person. in life you will deal with some stressful situations like you are going through now. it will only get worse actually. do you want a man who will make your life hell while its falling apart or do you want a man who build you up and ask ” what can i do to help” or “if you dont want to have sex its okay i know youre hurting. this isnt about me its about you”.
this isnt love. he just wants you for sex.
he is so selfish. you deserve so much more. reading this really does make me sad for you.
please dont stay with a man like this. it will only get worse.
This is something only you can decide. I don't eat animals or buy milk or eggs, but I am not so stringent that I would expect the same of my partner if everything else about them was perfect. Like you said, this would limit your dating pool considerably.
If this is a hill you're happy to die on, and you're fine with the risk of potentially never finding a suitable relationship that lives up to your standards, then you should split up. And to be honest, if you're even considering breaking up with her over this in the first place, it's not a good sign that you did stay together.
What I will say, is she has already cut back to pescatarian. Who's to say how she might feel in the future? But you can't guarantee she will change, obviously, and trying to influence her with guilt or pressure simply will not work in the long term.
YTA. There's no time frame on these kinds of things.
You’re both too old for this nonsense. Don’t waste your youth on someone who won’t stand up for you.
My golden rule is this: Ask yourself what you would do if the roles were reversed. If you wouldn’t treat him the same, walk away.