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You say “recently his sex drive is non-existent”. How was it before then? Were you both on the same level, or were you significantly higher than him?
If this was due to a stressful event, he should be willing to address it with you directly, and to seek out therapy to help him process whatever set him back. At his young age, he may find it uncomfortable to have a frank discussion about this subject, but it is important, as it's having a negative effect on your relationship and on your emotional wellbeing.
If he's not able or willing to do anything to address it, and if you want to stay in the relationship, you may consider suggesting an open relationship. Please do some research on how to do this in a healthy way. Too many couples attempt this with no research, and they don't communicate properly, feelings get hurt, and many relationships end up self destructing.
If he's not willing to work on it, and if he's not willing to try being open, you have a fundamental incompatibility, and if you try to remain together, it's only going to hurt you both and cause resentment. It may be in you're best interest to let go of this otherwise great relationship in the hopes of finding people more compatible with your respective sex drives.
The “long standing history of stigma against fathers” is a myth made up by men that discourages men from trying in family court.
Spreading these things just further makes men think that they're not likely to get custody. They're over 80% more likely to get custody when they put effort into getting custody over a woman. Often times men just don't show up to court, or have done like you said, something obviously irredeemable like domestic abuse or abandonment.
People gotta really stop acting like it's the courts who don't let dads see their kids. It's almost always because the man doesn't actually want too.
My late bf straight out HATED my cat. Told me all the time, told my cat he wished he would die, just verbally berated the fuck out of my cat, and my cat hated him right back. He'd pee on his bed, clothes, shoes, it was a war. He STILL fed him and got him water, he even would grab him if he tried to get out. Whenever he asked why my cat wouldn't just die, I joked that my cat will outlive him out of spite. I had no idea how right I was.
I am being very truthful, I turn 23 next month and he turned 29 late last year. You're right about this relationship being unhealthy, I really need to think about that aspect now. Think I've been in denial.
To answer your question, there was one other argument where he blocked me, but then generally whenever we've had conflict, he'd convince himself of the worst thing possible and fight with me over that (I don't know if this is making complete sense). I spoke to him about that and he was getting better before this particular situation. He also had been speaking with his therapist, so I was convinced things would be okay until this weekend.
Again, whether or not he’s interested isn’t really what’s important here. What’s important is that you feel like he is. It doesn’t feel that way, currently, do you think it will get better in a year? 10 years? Usually relationships start out nude and cool down over time. It’s been what? 3 months and you are already feeling like this. Do you honestly see this improving? Maybe you do, I don’t know. Just something to think about
I think you're going to have a hot time coming back from this. You assaulted someone for no real reason at all. You need to figure out why you did that and make sure you never have that reaction again. That might mean therapy or counseling.
If I were the friend you assaulted, I wouldn't even think about being friends with you again unless you were actively working on fixing your anger problem. Even then I wouldn't look at you the same way. You're someone what reacts with violence when you don't get your way and that's terrifying.
This is an interesting take, cause I completely agreed. Then I thought about, and I realized my wife tells me how to dress all the time. I actually really appreciate it and a lot of the things I’m adverse to end up being my favorite.
She is absolutely morally wrong. And you are definitely not an asshole.
Not much you can do to get them back from her though. But think about it this way, man.
You can always make more money. But your dignity is priceless. Don't even give her the satisfaction of speaking to you again.
I'd be willing to bet one of my kidneys that she'll try to reach out to you. Shameless users like this woman might pull the wool over one person's eyes, but somebody (probably this guy) will either see straight through her, or treat her like trash. Karma is an evil bitch and she's petty AF.
Hopefully, you'll be with a much nicer person that appreciates what you bring to the table, and not just money.
Can you? With a mindset that thinks it's 'weird' to be a fan, while being a fan themselves – a fan of a game kids play? It's your attitude toward it that seems weird to me. “This thing is ok to like, but that other thing is not”.
Depends how much it bugs you.
If it bugs you a little now, it's going to bug you a whole lot after 10, 20, 50 years of it.
If you have the capacity to let it slide and everything else is good, have at it.
Your inappropriately old boyfriend is trying to manipulate you into getting pregnant so that he can trap you in this relationship. That's probably when the abuse will start if it hasn't started already. It's just probably so little now that you don't actually realize it's happening.
Because here's the thing… You are like all the other girls. You're not special or more mature or any of the lies he's told you to normalize the fact that he is dating someone so much significantly younger than him. He's just a creep who prays on younger women because they're easier to manipulate because they have so much less life experience.
Your friends are absolutely wrong. How is this bragging?
As women we can’t be shocked when partners in our lives react in surprise to statistics about workplace harassment/daily harassment that women endure when we are never open to tell them what happens to us.
This person is making you very uncomfortable. His behavior is giving you anxiety. He treats you differently than his male colleagues. The next time he behaves this way, ask him VERY LOUDLY why he never comments on the hair of one of the other male chefs? Or how come he doesn’t woop their ass? Why doesn’t he moan when they speak?
This anxiety will bleed over to other parts of your life. And your partner will see you are agitated and won’t understand why. You need have open, honest communication.
And this is the first thing she should stop doing. I understand weed can be a good thing for some people, but if you’re jobless and (probably) smoking weed and doing jack-all all day…you probably shouldn’t be smoking at all.
Weed can further kill that motivation for him to get up and doing anything since it’s easier (and more enjoyable) to just be stoned all the time.
I’d probably stop with the weed and vapes first then stop cooking his food once the fog clears…unless he finds another way to get high.
Yo. You are having sex with a person who has a complicated and unhealthy relationship with sex. She wants sex but thinks she can’t have sex. This is never going to go well.
“Keep it secret in case she chickens out” is not a viable plan. Quite the opposite. If she wants this badly enough to head out the door intending to execute on it, she should expect to be honest with the kid she’s leaving behind.
Though again, it starts as a previewing exercise, to force wife to confront the enormity of what she’s contemplating and hopefully snap her out of it before it ever goes that far.
Ignore it. It predated you guys being a couple. Unless you guys sat down and shared every single encounter before the other partner, you're overreacting.
You say “recently his sex drive is non-existent”. How was it before then? Were you both on the same level, or were you significantly higher than him?
If this was due to a stressful event, he should be willing to address it with you directly, and to seek out therapy to help him process whatever set him back. At his young age, he may find it uncomfortable to have a frank discussion about this subject, but it is important, as it's having a negative effect on your relationship and on your emotional wellbeing.
If he's not able or willing to do anything to address it, and if you want to stay in the relationship, you may consider suggesting an open relationship. Please do some research on how to do this in a healthy way. Too many couples attempt this with no research, and they don't communicate properly, feelings get hurt, and many relationships end up self destructing.
If he's not willing to work on it, and if he's not willing to try being open, you have a fundamental incompatibility, and if you try to remain together, it's only going to hurt you both and cause resentment. It may be in you're best interest to let go of this otherwise great relationship in the hopes of finding people more compatible with your respective sex drives.
“and yes I agreed to do some ritual promising I didn’t” ~ ……..no. Just…….no.
The “long standing history of stigma against fathers” is a myth made up by men that discourages men from trying in family court.
Spreading these things just further makes men think that they're not likely to get custody. They're over 80% more likely to get custody when they put effort into getting custody over a woman. Often times men just don't show up to court, or have done like you said, something obviously irredeemable like domestic abuse or abandonment.
People gotta really stop acting like it's the courts who don't let dads see their kids. It's almost always because the man doesn't actually want too.
My late bf straight out HATED my cat. Told me all the time, told my cat he wished he would die, just verbally berated the fuck out of my cat, and my cat hated him right back. He'd pee on his bed, clothes, shoes, it was a war. He STILL fed him and got him water, he even would grab him if he tried to get out. Whenever he asked why my cat wouldn't just die, I joked that my cat will outlive him out of spite. I had no idea how right I was.
I also wouldn’t stay with someone who turned me down for hentai.
Yeah and the pages don't stick together
I am being very truthful, I turn 23 next month and he turned 29 late last year. You're right about this relationship being unhealthy, I really need to think about that aspect now. Think I've been in denial.
To answer your question, there was one other argument where he blocked me, but then generally whenever we've had conflict, he'd convince himself of the worst thing possible and fight with me over that (I don't know if this is making complete sense). I spoke to him about that and he was getting better before this particular situation. He also had been speaking with his therapist, so I was convinced things would be okay until this weekend.
Again, whether or not he’s interested isn’t really what’s important here. What’s important is that you feel like he is. It doesn’t feel that way, currently, do you think it will get better in a year? 10 years? Usually relationships start out nude and cool down over time. It’s been what? 3 months and you are already feeling like this. Do you honestly see this improving? Maybe you do, I don’t know. Just something to think about
I think you're going to have a hot time coming back from this. You assaulted someone for no real reason at all. You need to figure out why you did that and make sure you never have that reaction again. That might mean therapy or counseling.
If I were the friend you assaulted, I wouldn't even think about being friends with you again unless you were actively working on fixing your anger problem. Even then I wouldn't look at you the same way. You're someone what reacts with violence when you don't get your way and that's terrifying.
Well I don’t know enough how much of a deal breaker it is
This is an interesting take, cause I completely agreed. Then I thought about, and I realized my wife tells me how to dress all the time. I actually really appreciate it and a lot of the things I’m adverse to end up being my favorite.
She is absolutely morally wrong. And you are definitely not an asshole.
Not much you can do to get them back from her though. But think about it this way, man.
You can always make more money. But your dignity is priceless. Don't even give her the satisfaction of speaking to you again.
I'd be willing to bet one of my kidneys that she'll try to reach out to you. Shameless users like this woman might pull the wool over one person's eyes, but somebody (probably this guy) will either see straight through her, or treat her like trash. Karma is an evil bitch and she's petty AF.
Hopefully, you'll be with a much nicer person that appreciates what you bring to the table, and not just money.
Can you? With a mindset that thinks it's 'weird' to be a fan, while being a fan themselves – a fan of a game kids play? It's your attitude toward it that seems weird to me. “This thing is ok to like, but that other thing is not”.
Depends how much it bugs you.
If it bugs you a little now, it's going to bug you a whole lot after 10, 20, 50 years of it.
If you have the capacity to let it slide and everything else is good, have at it.
I hope OP sees this and replies that back to him
Your inappropriately old boyfriend is trying to manipulate you into getting pregnant so that he can trap you in this relationship. That's probably when the abuse will start if it hasn't started already. It's just probably so little now that you don't actually realize it's happening.
Because here's the thing… You are like all the other girls. You're not special or more mature or any of the lies he's told you to normalize the fact that he is dating someone so much significantly younger than him. He's just a creep who prays on younger women because they're easier to manipulate because they have so much less life experience.
My husband is farting as I read this.
Your friends are absolutely wrong. How is this bragging?
As women we can’t be shocked when partners in our lives react in surprise to statistics about workplace harassment/daily harassment that women endure when we are never open to tell them what happens to us.
This person is making you very uncomfortable. His behavior is giving you anxiety. He treats you differently than his male colleagues. The next time he behaves this way, ask him VERY LOUDLY why he never comments on the hair of one of the other male chefs? Or how come he doesn’t woop their ass? Why doesn’t he moan when they speak?
This anxiety will bleed over to other parts of your life. And your partner will see you are agitated and won’t understand why. You need have open, honest communication.
And this is the first thing she should stop doing. I understand weed can be a good thing for some people, but if you’re jobless and (probably) smoking weed and doing jack-all all day…you probably shouldn’t be smoking at all.
Weed can further kill that motivation for him to get up and doing anything since it’s easier (and more enjoyable) to just be stoned all the time.
I’d probably stop with the weed and vapes first then stop cooking his food once the fog clears…unless he finds another way to get high.
At least I have conscience, he doesn’t.
This is not a relationship that you should spend one more second in.
Yo. You are having sex with a person who has a complicated and unhealthy relationship with sex. She wants sex but thinks she can’t have sex. This is never going to go well.
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“Keep it secret in case she chickens out” is not a viable plan. Quite the opposite. If she wants this badly enough to head out the door intending to execute on it, she should expect to be honest with the kid she’s leaving behind.
Though again, it starts as a previewing exercise, to force wife to confront the enormity of what she’s contemplating and hopefully snap her out of it before it ever goes that far.
Ignore it. It predated you guys being a couple. Unless you guys sat down and shared every single encounter before the other partner, you're overreacting.
Like Ms Elsa sang “let it go, let it go”
Your sister stole your guy without asking you for an opinion and you were expected to be OK with this, and now it's your fault that he hits her?
What the utter FUCK?
You're better off without these people in your life, they are not on your side and have never been.
Communication is the key. And I get that you're honeymooning, but I am a woman and have to say that at that rate, I too would be sore. :/